18 Feb 2008 04:02:12 | Larry Bilotta
Let’s face it. Overcoming procrastination can be a challenge if
you don’t know what’s causing it in the first place. These 4
simple steps will help you find the REAL cause of
procrastination making overcoming procrastination a breeze.
You'll soon be able to achieve those daunting tasks and in some
cases, even look forward to doing them!
STEP 1: Identify the REAL Cause of Your Procrastination The
first step is finding out what’s preventing you from overcoming
procrastination in the first place. People often use the word as
if ‘procrastination’ itself is the problem. For example, "You
know, I really have a problem with procrastination." But
procrastination itself is NOT the problem - it is only the
symptom.
Start by picking a task you know you should do, but have put off
for a long time. Is this something you dread doing because
you’re not good at it?
For example, I had a friend whose son always turned his homework
in late. He constantly put it off until the very last minute -
even after being penalized, still nothing changed.
The boy, as it turned out, was afraid of getting a bad grade on
his homework. Without even thinking about it, he would put it
off until the pain of turning it in late became greater than his
fear of getting a bad grade.
In his mind, he was actually protecting himself from a
potentially painful situation. The apparent reason for his
procrastination was – “I’m too busy with my after-school
projects.” The REAL reason for his procrastination – “I’m afraid
I might fail.”
To find the source of YOUR procrastination, ask yourself the
following questions…
1) Am I putting it off because I’m just not good at it?
2) Am I putting it off because I’m afraid I might fail or
because I’m afraid of what might happen?
STEP 2: Create an Action Plan that’s In Line With Your Strengths
After you discover the real reason for your procrastination, the
next step is finding a way to get the job done that’s in line
with something you LIKE to do.
Let's say you really like to be with people, but you have a term
paper that you must get done. The TRUTH is that you don't want
to write the paper because you have to do it by yourself. The
problem is that your strength is being with people but this
paper forces you to work alone.
The solution? Try inviting a friend over to help you. (This
friend must have your best interest in mind). They won’t write
your paper for you, but you can bounce ideas off of them. This
solution would make writing a paper much more appealing to you
when you know you won't have to "go it alone." You can do this
with any task you need to get done, but have put off in the past
because it was not in line with one of your strengths.
STEP 3: Fear of Failure – One of the Leading Causes of
Procrastination One big reason that many people struggle with
overcoming procrastination is because they’re afraid that they
might fail. So what‘s REALLY driving this fear of failure? In
most cases, it's because of that “little voice inside your head”
that tells you you're never good enough.
The voice goes like this: “I know I need to look for a new job,
but I'm so afraid of interviews. What if I say something stupid?
I’ll just wait till next week when there are more jobs in the
paper and I can get someone to write a better resume.”
Do you see how that little voice is creating the thoughts that
cause procrastination? You start with good intentions, but they
quickly get shot down by that “little voice inside your head".
STEP 4: How to STOP Making Excuses and START Getting Things Done
The next step is overcoming that "little voice" and getting rid
of it the moment it begins to invent excuses that cause you to
procrastinate. Keep reading to find out about a FREE 7-day email
course that shows you exactly how to do this.
Believe me. Once you start using these 4 simple steps,
overcoming procrastination will no longer be an issue for you.
Put these steps to the test right away. Take the first, most
CRITICAL step in overcoming your procrastination by eliminating
the “excuse maker”– (the “little voice inside your head.”). I
guarantee, once you know how to eliminate your negative thoughts
the moment they appear, your unproductive days will be over.
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