Sometimes you can feel that you've been in the dating game for years and years and that you are no closer to finding "the one" than when you were young. It is important to look at what your criterion is for the perfect relationship. The debate has been going on for centuries as to whether each of us has a soulmate.

Tip#3

One thing to look at in your life is whether or not you have a committment problem generally. Is it hard to be definite with plans with friends, stick with a job or stay focused on projects? Some people have been characterized as a bee needing to taste all the flowers.

Tip#2

There's a line in a popular song that says, "Like a worn-out recording of a popular song" when he speaks of his fantasy of a new person and frustration in his current relationship. Do things wear out for you quickly? If so, is there a way to see the newness and freshness of each moment rather than constantly to need new experiences?

Tip#3

Commitment IS a serious issue and one requiring a lot of thought. However, if you are someone who finds they can't stick to work, plans and relationships then that area needs to be examined in more depth as it is a pattern that may sabotage not only relationships but other aspects of your life.