18 Feb 2008 04:38:22 | Debra Thorsen
You may have been raised to think that firing your boss and
becoming your own boss is an irresponsible, impulsive, and
selfish thing to do. Think again.
Firing your boss may be the only responsible action to take if
you want to build financial security for your family and provide
the emotional security to your children that having parents
involved in their daily lives provides.
Most companies are not family-friendly. Here are some
enlightening statistics provided by mothersandmore.org.
• 70% of working fathers and mothers report they don’t have
enough time with their children. • 59% of women and 38% of men
report they have no flexibility in determining the start and end
times of their workday. • 63% of all employees would like to
reduce their current total work week if they could. • 88% of
women working part time are NOT likely to receive health
insurance or pension benefits from their employers. • Wage
penalty for motherhood: 5% per child.
We are all brainwashed and trained at an early age by parents,
teachers, and society that getting a job is what we are supposed
to do. Maybe this was a good thing to do in the 1950s, 60s, and
even 70s. I’m not sure. But things started changing rapidly in
the 1980s with technological advances and the first big wave of
corporate downsizing.
Before I go any further, I don’t want to leave you with the
impression that I think all companies or organizations are bad.
There are many organizations that have transcended the
industrial-age command-and-control type mentality and offer team
members opportunities to learn, grow, play, evolve as people,
and have a fulfilling family life. These entities are to be
applauded and celebrated. They have gone Cubeless. If you are
lucky enough to work for one of these enlightened organizations,
you may not need to read any further. (Please send me an email
so that I can recommend your organization on my website:
coach@corporaterebels.com).
If, however, you find yourself in a work environment that does
not support your higher good, that prohibits emotions and
passion, that requires you to wear the Corporate Cubeface, that
punishes you for having a life outside of work, that has
illogical rules for success like “work 70 hours a week and look
and act like the CEO”, then it may be time for you to
considering firing your boss. (I call these work environments
the Corporate Cubeworld. Please visit www.culturebuilders.com
for a detailed description of the Corporate Cubeworld.)
The Corporate Cubeworld no longer provides lifetime employment.
The Corporate Cubeworld does not value family life. And
technology has enabled anyone to start a business from anywhere.
The Conference Board released a report on February 28, 2005
stating that “Americans are increasingly unhappy with their
jobs. The decline in job satisfaction is widespread among
workers of all ages and across all income brackets.” The report
showed that: • 25% of American workers are just “showing up to
collect a paycheck” • 40% of workers feel disconnected from
their employers • Two out of every three workers do not identify
with or feel motivated to drive their employers’ business goals
and objectives.
They also found that money cannot buy satisfaction. Job
satisfaction has declined across all income levels and only 14%
of workers earning $50,000 or more are “very satisfied” with
their jobs. The report says that “Rapid technological changes,
rising productivity demands and changing employee expectations
have all contributed to the decline in job satisfaction.”
My interpretation of this: the Corporate Cubeworld is inherently
rigid and inflexible and demands more and more from workers who
are less and less willing to surrender their lives to their
jobs.
This report shows is that there is a LOT of unhappy workers in
America today. Is there something wrong with all of these people
or is it more plausible that there is something inherently
broken in the Corporate world?
I would like to point you to a vision of an alternative work
world. One in which you build a life while you build your
business. One in which you build multiple revenue streams, some
active and some passive. One that is integrated with the life
you want to be living.
A Vision of Life After You Fire Your Boss and Step Outside of
the Cubeworld
1)You feel passionate about the work you do. 2)Your work is an
expression of your true self. 3)You are free to express your
passion and all of your other natural, human emotions.
4)Cooperation is valued over competition. 5)Mindful parenting is
viewed as important and challenging work that adds to your value
as a worker. 6)Personalized vision and purpose statements
replace titles. 7)Office spaces are wherever you work most
effectively and efficiently (i.e. park bench, coffee shop, home
office). 8)Work hours are flexible and determined by your body
clock, lifestyle, and inspiration. 9)You are free to pursue many
vocations simultaneously. 10)The point is not to climb a linear,
vertical career ladder, but to try on different works, fail
joyously and repeatedly, while building wealth, having fun, and
learning.
My vision for the future is one in which Corporate Cubeworlds
are rare. They become extinct because people are no longer
willing to work in Cubeworlds. The Corporate Cubeworld comes
down like the Berlin Wall. In order to attract workers,
companies find that they must go Cubeless.
Do I seem idealistic to you? Do you think that my vision is
impossible?
I know that it is possible because I have coached hundreds of
people out of the Cubeworld and into lives that are fun and that
work for them.
The real key is not to trade one boss for another boss. Stop
trading your time for dollars. Stop being a wage slave.
All Corporate Cubejobs are earned income jobs. You trade your
time for dollars. If you stop trading your time, the dollars
stop coming. This is a huge problem if you decide to have a
baby, or you get sick, you want to take an extended vacation, or
are ready to retire, etc.
Often people go from a salaried earned income situation to a
self-employed earned income situation and not a whole lot
changes. Maybe they work from home. Maybe they now answer to
clients instead of a direct boss. Maybe they work less. Maybe
they work more.
But often the self-employed need to work ON the business and IN
the business. Many people find themselves working MORE to make
the same money or working less and making a lot less money. And
the self-employed often think about work 24/7 even if they
aren’t working 24/7. As a self-employed person, you become
responsible for marketing, sales, bookkeeping, operations, and
fulfillment.
So, how do you build a company and life that works? I believe
that the best situation is one in which you pursue your passion
as directed by your heart and that you build a business that
offers multiple streams of passive income in addition to your
earned income.
Passive (or residual income) is income that you collect from
your indirect or past action. For example, I can coach a person
on the phone and charge them $150 per hour and trade my time for
dollars. This is earned income. I can also offer a tele-class
and charge $49 for each participant (earned). But I can also
record the class and continue to offer the recording to others
(passive).
There are so many exciting ways to combine earned and passive
income. It requires imagination, courage and planning.
Are you ready to Fire Your Boss and start creating work that you
love, that gives you energy, and that feeds your soul? Are you
ready to secure your retirement by creating passive revenue
streams in addition to your earned income streams? Are you ready
to evaluate work, relationships, and opportunities by the amount
of joy they give you?
About Author :
©Debra Thorsen. Debra can help you achieve success, happiness,
and wealth outside of the corporate world. Debra is a certified
coach of the Newfield Network, has an MBA from Carnegie Mellon,
and a BA in Cultural Anthropology. Debra has been guiding people
out of the corporate world to find their bliss for over 8 years.
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