18 Feb 2008 04:38:22 | Kathy Paauw
One of my highly creative clients (I’ll call her Kate) used to
think she could never be organized. She had always believed
getting organized meant that she’d have to give up her
creativity, self-expression and spontaneity and become a rigid
and compulsive person. She had decided long ago that she would
rather stay disorganized than to use systems and stick to boring
routines that she believed would squelch her creativity.
Kate’s work required high creativity – something she had
developed quite a reputation for. Her employer counted on her to
deliver quality work, and she did…but usually at a great
personal cost. She typically had to work late into the evening
and on weekends in order to meet deadlines without compromising
the quality of her work. These late-night working sessions
frequently consisted of spending several minutes to several
hours each day frantically searching for important information
that contained critical specifications required to complete her
work. But in the end, Kate always met her deadlines and
delivered a quality product.
All was well with the world…until eventually Kate had taken on
more responsibility than she could handle. She began running
late, missing appointments and deadlines, and not returning
clients’ phone calls. And things were no better at home. The
stress was doing her in, and she knew that something had to
change. In essence, the weeds were choking off nutrients to the
fruit-bearing plants she had been cultivating in her garden, and
she was no longer able to produce the same quality or volume of
fruit.
As much as Kate wanted to preserve her freedom of
self-expression by NOT getting organized, she realized that she
could be much more productive at work and at home if she didn’t
waste so much time looking for things. Kate was ready to make
some changes, so she read some organizing books and tried to
implement the ideas on her own. That didn’t prove to have
lasting results, so she hired a professional organizer to help
her gain control of her work area. But by the end of the
following week, her desk had reverted back to its original
state, and her email and phone messages were out of control,
too. The weeds were starting to sprout again and choke off the
fruit-bearing plants! Kate felt very discouraged and defeated.
By the time Kate contacted me, she was ready to do whatever it
took to turn things around. Once she quit viewing “getting
organized” as an enemy to creativity, she began to discover that
creating some systems and routines actually freed up her time
and thoughts so she could exercise more self-expression and
creativity. This time she started pulling the weeds from the
roots so they wouldn’t grow back…and the nutrients began flowing
again to the fruit-bearing plants. By organizing from the inside
out, Kate was able to begin making lasting changes in habits
that had been costing her a lot of time and energy.
How did Kate and I get started? We used the 7-step process
below. We went to the root of the problem instead of just
pulling up the tops of the weeds.
7 Steps to Lasting Change
To demonstrate these steps, I’ll use examples related to getting
organized, although you can use this process in other areas of
your life, as well.
1. Identify your motivation. Answers to these questions might
help you identify motivations for getting organized:
· If you were to get and stay organized, what different results
would be possible?
· What will getting organized enable you to do that you are not
doing now?
· If you don’t get organized, how will that affect your future?
To read more about motivation, visit my April 2002 newsletter
titled Getting Motivated to Get Organized at
http://www.orgcoach.net/newsletter/april2002.html.
2. Visualize your success. Imagine that you are already
organized. How do you feel? Imagine going through your day and
your week being on time, feeling in control, getting home for
dinner with your family, and finding what you need with ease…or
whatever it is that you want to experience as a result of being
organized.
Behave like someone who has already arrived where you want to
be. Claim your desire to accomplish a goal by affirming your joy
in having already achieved it. For example, repeat to yourself,
“I love being organized!” several times a day. By focusing on
how pleasurable it is to achieve a desired outcome, you'll begin
to install new beliefs in your subconscious, which will increase
your chance of staying motivated and inspired.
3. Identify your obstacles. What’s getting in the way of you
having what you want and being who you want to be? What
behaviors or habits need to change? If you’d like assistance
identifying your organizational obstacles, check out my
organizational assessment tool at
http://www.orgcoach.net/assessment.htm.
4. Identify new strategies and habits, and state them as your
intentions. A powerful intention keeps you focused on where you
want to go. To keep you on track, create an intention statement
that you can put in writing and keep in view. Here are some
examples:
· I intend to review my mail daily by choosing one of these
three options for each item in my Inbox: file, act, toss.
· I intend to return phone calls within 4 hours.
· I intend to check email only twice daily for no more than 20
minutes each.
If paper is a challenge for you, I offer many free tips and free
teleclasses that provide concrete ideas you can begin
implementing right away. Visit www.orgcoach.net.
5. Create a plan to support your intentions. Start small, and be
consistent. For example, if your inbox is overflowing and you
have an intention to go through it daily, schedule dedicated
time to do it daily. My De-clutter Your Life teleclass series
posted at http://www.orgcoach.net eleclasses.html#de-clutter
will provide concrete tools and a planning process to help you
follow through with your intentions.
6. Maintain your success -- build in accountability & support.
Sharing your intentions with someone else will increase the
likelihood of you following through. Ask a friend for support,
or hire a coach.
7. Acknowledge and celebrate your accomplishments. Reflect on
the positive changes you make…even the little successes. They
are stepping stones that will provide the foundation for lasting
change. Celebrate that you tossed that piece of unwanted mail
immediately instead of allowing it to collect on your desk, or
that you kept that appointment with yourself to go through your
inbox. By acknowledging all your accomplishments – no matter how
small -- you train yourself to appreciate steady progress rather
than expecting overnight success.
About Author :
Kathy Paauw, a certified business/personal coach and
organizing/productivity consultant, specializes in helping busy
executives, professionals, and entrepreneurs declutter their
schedules, spaces and minds. Contact her at kathy@orgcoach.net
or visit her website at http://www.orgcoach.net and learn how
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