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14 Mar 2008 02:22:53 | Ed Sykes
I was recently coaching an engineer who wanted to improve his
speaking skills. After videotaping him, we discussed his strong
points and then his areas of improvement. Then we got to the
area of vocal variety. Vocal variety is the quality of your
speech that hold your audience. It is the combination of pitch
changes, pauses, inflection, rhythm, and loudness in your voice
that adds "color" to any conversation or speech. I suggested he
try Dr. Seuss's "The Cat in the Hat." At that point he looked at
me like I had a third eye. I then explained how "The Cat in the
Hat" could help anyone improve his or her speaking skills,
especially vocal variety, and have fun doing it. Can you
remember being read "The Cat in the Hat" by your parents? What
held your attention? What made you want to hear "The Cat in the
Hat" again and again? "The Cat in the Hat" is set up so that you
must use vocal variety to read the story. It's the vocal variety
that held your attention. Here's how Dr. Seuss's "The Cat in the
Hat" can help you hold your audience's attention: 1. Buy the
Book My favorite Dr. Seuss books for this type of exercise are
"The Cat in the Hat" and "Green Eggs and Ham." You can go to any
used bookstore and get a gently used copy of the book at a
substantial discount. You can also go to www.half.com and get
the book at more than 50% off the price.
2. Read with Passion Read to your children, nephews, cousins,
etc. While reading aloud, exaggerate your pitch, tone, and
pauses. The children will enjoy it as you will become used to
the sound of your voice. Children are the best barometers to let
you know if you are doing it correctly. The children will have a
look on their faces that show they are hanging on every word you
are saying. Continue to experiment with different ways to read
"The Cat in the Hat" while recording yourself on audiotape. The
more fun you have, the more everyone involved will benefit from
this exercise.
3. Apply It Right Away (That's the Way!) Immediately apply your
newly acquired vocal variety skills in any speaking situation
whether it's in a meeting, with co-workers, speaking in front of
a group, or one-on-one with another person. It may feel a little
strange in the beginning. However, remember the more you use
your new skills, the more comfortable you will be.
About Author :
Ed Sykes is a professional speaker, author, and success coach in
the areas of leadership, motivation, stress management, customer
service, and team building. You can e-mail him at
mailto:esykes@thesykesgrp.com, or call him at (757) 427-7032. Go
to his web site, http://www.thesykesgrp.com, and signup for the
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and Stress Secrets for the Busy Professional."
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