14 Mar 2008 02:11:36 | Gary Simpson
In the USA, every two minutes a woman is being raped.
A 1993 survey revealed that 50% of Canadian women have
experienced an incident of sexual assault or physical violence.
In Australia, 19% of women aged 18 to 24 experienced an act of
violence in the last year. Statistics show that one in very four
women in America will be sexually assaulted in her lifetime.
These are SHOCKING statistics!
For more than 30 years I have been running specialized self
defence courses and seminars. Over that time I have shown
thousands of people how to protect and look after themselves.
Increasing personal safety ALWAYS commences with
awareness.
Since most women fear attacks of a sexual nature more than
anything else most of my quick tips are geared towards that.
If you are a woman, here is a list of ten simple things that you
can do immediately that will increase your safety:
1 - Do not wear revealing clothing in public places.
Doing so will ensure that you attract plenty of attention,
including attention from those people with evil intent. Be
discrete and leave provocative wear to those times when you can
enjoy the intimacy of your partner.
2 - Trust your instincts. Women are very intuitive. If
you think a situation might be dangerous then it probably is.
That little guardian angel should be trusted rather than ignored.
3 - Rape and other sexual assault is always increasing.
In the event of the worst outcome use your fingernails to gouge
your attacker's cheek. It marks him for identification and you
will have DNA under your nails.
4 - Drive your motor vehicle in a courteous manner.
Nobody appreciates rude hand signs. Remember - eventually you
have to stop, even if it is to refuel. Psycho cases might follow
you for many miles "just to teach you a lesson" - all because
you made yourself a target to their twisted minds.
5 - Drinking excessive amounts of alcohol, taking mind
altering drugs and leaving ANY food or drink unattended where it
may be tampered with is a recipe for disaster. Give your self an
even chance.
6 - NEVER pick up hitch-hikers and ABSOLUTELY NEVER
hitch-hike yourself.
7 - If you live alone make sure that all your mail is
addressed by just your first initial followed by your surname.
Never allow mail to be addressed to you with salutations like
Miss, Mrs, Ms or with your christian or given name. Those
letters and parcels pass many eyes before they get to you.
Change them. Make them nondescript as to your sex and marital
status. Why allow anybody even one extra shred of information
about you?
8 - NEVER walk alone at night or at any time in isolated
areas. Predators love these locations. Avoid them.
9 - Many sexual acts are committed by people who the
victims knew - or, at least, thought they knew! Be friendly and
polite by all means but be vigilant for tell-tale signs of
"strange" behavior. Do NOT flirt. Be firm about any unwanted
attention, particularly in the work place.
10 - Sexual attack is usually preceded by some visual
sign, which is usually preceded by some verbal approach before
the physical action. Recognize the sequence: the look - the talk
- the attack.
Please feel free to distribute this safety list to every
woman you care for. The only condition is that the resource
box remains intact and that this article is not altered in any
way.
There are so many predators out there. Let's help our women to
PROTECT themselves! Don't let somebody YOU know become
the next victim.
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