You feel so tired...

It's like you went ten rounds with the heavy weight champion of the world.

No matter what you do it seems that you can't get ahead of the problems. The bills are rising and the creditors are calling. You wake up and go to your car with the feeling of sadness. The sadness comes from having to spend eight hours in a place that you despise.

When you go to sleep at night you dream of a place that's nothing like your real life. How come you can't have the life you dream of?

The life you want is achievable.

To reach the life that you want you must change. Stop doing the same things that you are doing. The things you are currently doing are what got you the life that you have. To get the life you want you must start doing things that you have NOT done.

If you're looking for someone to share your life with - try going to the bookstore instead of the hot night club.

If you wake up sad in the morning look around and think about what you should be thankful for. This will help you boost your spirit.

Get to know yourself...

Get to know your spirit...

Start helping others... This doesn't mean that you have to give money. Give your time and offer encouragement to others. This could be your friends or donate to your church or local community center.

You won't see your life change over night. It will take time for you to see things change. Many times the changes will be small to begin with. Make sure to keep your eyes open for the changes or you may miss them.

No matter how hard things get keep pushing your way through life.

Every day is a new day... Each day is a chance for you to bust out of whatever is hindering you. Don't take life lying down - stand up and get what you deserve.

Jhasmal Hardyway holds a degree in MMIS (Masters in Managment Information Systems).

He specializes in relationship building and small business coaching. He has written many articles on these topics.