14 Mar 2008 02:11:36 | Jay Bauder
Advantages of being truthful to your online date
Think you found someone who might be your next serious partner
online? The long nights you spend chatting and sending each
other private e-mails everyday can really get one's heart skip a
notch higher. When you finally set a date to meet each other,
are you sure you are confident enough? Or will you fret because
you told your online date that you are six two instead of five
three in height? Then you suddenly realized you should have been
less of a liar on your previous conversations.
Honesty is very important in any relationship. Read over the
advantages of being truthful to your online date and you'll
agree for sure.
*Get more people to check out your profile Not even a
psychologist would know that what you have in your profile is
really who you say you are. Fill out your profile with an honest
detailed description of yourself. Sprinkle it with a little
humor about your yet- to- improve qualities and you're
guaranteed that someone will message you in a matter of minutes.
The key is to turn your flaws into something funny and
forgiving.
*Get a good first impression A good first impression would mean:
"you're sexy just as you told me you are" and not "I thought you
would be three inches taller." When you tell your online date
about your physical attributes, you can count on a second date.
*Lying requires a lot of thinking Lying, compared to saying the
truth, requires more brain activities. It would be obvious if
you're lying if it takes you five to ten seconds to answer a
simple question such as, "Are you fat?"
*Gain his/ her trust Friendships built on sincerity are more
likely to turn into a serious relationship. Trust is just as
important as love and respect. Being truthful to your online
date makes its easier for her to trust her heart to you.
*Strengthen your confidence Being true to your self shows how
you respect your identity. Knowing your challenges and improving
your personality would get others attracted to you and would
like you as you like yourself.
*Be less burdened Don't be pressured if an online date doesn't
have the same hobbies that you have. It doesn't matter if she
likes rock music and you like country music. As long as you have
a blast going out, lying to get her approval is not necessary.
You can find true love anywhere, even online. Just be wary and
safe when meeting strangers. You might not get your lifetime
partner here, but meeting someone that would make you smile and
laugh is always life's simple pleasures.
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