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14 Mar 2008 02:10:56 | Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein
Once upon a time there was a Princess who set out on a raft to
find the Enchanted Forest. She took with her a canteen full of
hopes and dreams, minimal provisions, and outdated maps. The
raft swayed. the wind blew. It was too cold. It was too hot. She
was hungry. She was tired. She was scared. At times she was
almost swept overboard. Finally, she arrived at what she thought
was the Enchanted Forest. At first it was welcoming. There were
beautiful trees and lovely smells. However, quickly she fell in
the brambles and was pricked again and again. It was dark inside
the forest and she couldn't see where she was. She realized that
most of the signposts were missing, some that were there were
tilted the wrong way. Night was falling, this was not an
Enchanted Forest! She was sure of that as she lay down in a pile
of leaves to try to sleep. This was feeling like a Disenchanted
Place! I wandered for ages through this disenchanted forest. I
was alone and yet not alone as many others were wandering also.
Yet there was a hole in my heart as I felt even though others
were in the forest we weren't connecting. We were shadowing each
other but not speaking in ways to each other that were full
enough to create connection and a sense of joy! I wanted to go
home. But where was home now? Then some women came along and
gave me time and opened their hearts and minds to me. I listened
to what they shared and went over their wisdom and knowledge
again and again. I suddenly realized that more sunlight was
coming through the forest. The birds were singing and the
flowers were all in bloom. I realized that I had gone from a
disheartened state to a state of elation! The women had helped
me discover and give life to THE ENCHANTED SELF. I realized
quickly that each of us has one! For some of us, our enchanted
selves are clear and central to our beings. For others our
enchanted selves are vague and barely breathing. But everyone
has one! It is our most special part of ourselves that is where
joy, wisdom and meaning emanate from. It is a gift that we
carry. It is a gift we share. It provides the light when
everything is dark and it takes us again and again away from
disenchantment and despair! Now as I walked through the forest
verything changed for me. Light kept filling the forest and when
the light was dim, I would remember the women and how they
taught me to light my own way-pull from my own passions and
loves and what gives me delight. I would remember that my own
potential can not be extinguished by negative words from someone
else as it is my blueprint of who I am and my gifts to be
shared. I knew a great gift had been sent to me by these women
who had shared their stories with me. I was blessed. And
immediately I knew that I a responsibility to send the news far
out over the land. I was filled with the passion that comes from
knowing a special assignment had been given and I flung open my
arms to all! I welcomed all in to receive this glorious news-We
have the capacity for delight and joy within! We are not the
victims of disenchantment! We are each able to use enchantment
as a way to unfold our personal talents, capacities and
convictions. We are not doomed to by mesmerized by darkness nor
do we have to wait for a power to come from without! The power
of elation is waiting within each of us! But just opening my
arms was not enough-I had to take an instrument of wisdom and
use it wisely. And so I did-for me often that meant taking pen
or computer in hand. And that meant I reached out to you! And I
am so happy that you are hear. I hope you will also take in your
hand the wisdom of Enchantment and begin to send it out into
endless waves of positive energy and encouragement. I look
forward to sharing many wondrous tales! For more information on
how my search began please read the professional paper I have
prepared at: http://www.enchantedself.com/mentalhealth.htm
About Author :
Dr. Barbara Becker Holstein , originator of THE ENCHANTED SELF®,
a method of bringing delight, purpose and meaning into everyday
living, is a nationally known Positive Psychologist. Visit her
website at http://www.enchantedself.com<
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