When you apply the technique of dating with humor, laughter is triggered inside the mind when a well timed and crafted joke is delivered. It sets off a seductive chain of events in the human brain that can be used to our advantage to create a killer first impression when attracting women.

This phenomenon has been document by psychologists and we have a pretty clear understanding why this happens. But the most importantly we know what happens. You start creating intrigue, fascination, attraction and of course laughter in the women you are revealing this to.

So guess what, if you can bring out all these lusty feelings from a women, on demand... you very quickly stand out amongst a crowd of other guys in her mind. This has such a powerful affect that in most cases it makes women overlook obvious facts such as, you might not be the best looking guy in the room, or the tallest, or the richest.

Did you know? Psychological studies have shown that it's psychologically impossible to dislike someone who has made you laugh. Hmmm interesting, this fact alone was what changed my dating life from average to consistently successful with women practically overnight. It was one of the biggest breakthroughs I had ever learned about dating.

So how does humor create all this psychological magic inside the human brain? It's all about conflicting ideas. Let me explain. The human brain needs to deal with things, concepts, ideas that are of a similar nature. Two opposing or conflicting thoughts cannot roll around inside a person's head for very long before it creates stress, confusion and anxiety.

Now here is the best part, you can do her a big favor and be the knight in shining armor and create these conflicting thoughts or ideas inside her head...Huh? Let me explain, a well crafted, well delivered joke is a prime example of two conflicting ideas. As I mentioned before the conflict of these two ideas creates stress and anxiety and this is released through a pressure relief valve called Laughter.

So how can a joke be two conflicting ideas? Well it kind of reminds me of many years ago when I was a kid. One of my fondest childhood memories was back in grade two. That's when my father would always walk me to school everyday...Well it made sense, he was in the same grade as me.

Did you catch that? I snuck that one in on you. This was a proper "Set Up" of a joke, you didn't see it coming. It became a natural part of the flow of the conversation. I was guiding you down a set of tracks and then bang I literally derailed your train of thought.

Now this joke has worked remarkably well for me at parties and social gatherings when of course the girl I just met wants to know something about my family. And that is my entry point to deliver this joke on a silver platter, with a complete surprise and with great response.

Warning: Here's how not to tell a joke! Have you ever been at a party or gathering and some guy comes into the room and announces, "Hey everybody, I heard a really good one the other day, ummm...what do you get when...?"

Well that's like a week old dead carp lying in the sun. You can smell it from a mile away. Even if there was a remote chance that it was a good joke, this guy just took away the most powerful weapon of a joke, and that is the element of surprise. And what's more he looks like a Dork in the process.

Have you ever watched a really talented magician demonstrating an illusion or effect? He draws your attention down a set of tracks and bang he derails your train of thought with a surprise at the end that makes you gasp or go wow. He does it with slight of hand...but you can now create this magical effect of attraction in a woman...with slight of mouth.

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