08 Mar 2008 04:18:39 | David DeFord
Motivation is very much like our bodies—without consistent
nourishment it dies. We must see that we consistently feed our
motivation with uplifting material and people. Dr. Stephen Covey
calls it “sharpening the saw.” Taking the time to sharpen the
saw increases our productivity and eases the effort. By doing
so, we can continuously make progress toward goal achievement.
This nourishment can take many forms: • Books • Articles •
Websites • E-zines • Discussion groups and forums • Audio
programs • Live seminars • Tele-seminars
Just as you should eat a balanced diet, so you should nourish
yourself with a variety of sources for motivational energy. At
the end of this chapter, I have provided links to some of my
favorite authors and resources.
Books For hundreds of years, books have brought inspiration and
instruction to billions. Those who live the “TV existence”
vegetate their way around wonderful inspiration. Books teach us,
inspire us, entertain us, and can build in us the passion we
need to nail our goals.
If we obtain and study books that help us lift ourselves and
build our skills, we position ourselves to achieve the greatness
we seek. Every author has his own perspective. By reading a
variety of subjects and authors, we can take from each the
teachings that apply to ourselves.
For me, books represent my favorite means for nourishment.
We now have the added opportunity to obtain eBooks. We can
purchase these books online and immediately download them onto
our own computers. Some can then be loaded onto our PDA’s for
portability. You may wish to read eBooks directly from your
monitor, or you may choose to print them out and read them.
Articles Magazine articles can provide you with good
motivational nourishment on a single subject. Often, these
articles point you to resources available from various sources.
Website No matter the subject, there are probably hundreds if
not thousands of websites covering it. Most of these provide the
information to you at no charge. Some websites provide premium
memberships that give you access to more detailed information.
Most often, the site will point you to resources you can
purchase. Either, the site allows you to purchase the resources
at their site, or they link you to an affiliate site that pays
them for the referral.
Websites can be excellent sources of motivational nourishment.
Find a few that you trust, and return to them often. Every few
months, search around for additional sites.
Subscribe to one or two. It will only cost you a few dollars a
year, and will give you access to hundreds of articles on a
variety of subjects.
E-zines Want a regular infusion of energy and information?
Subscribe to a few e-zines. These publications come to you via
email at no charge. Many of them are well-written and
insightful. They feature an article or two in each issue, as
well as inspirational quotes and stories. And, like websites,
they offer resources for purchase.
Select three or four, and read them when they come. It may take
you ten to fifteen minutes to read them, but they can provide
you with the energy infusion you need to keep focused on your
goals.
Of course I am partial to Ordinary People Can Win. And I hope
you are benefiting for subscribing to and reading it.
Discussion Groups or Forums You can link up with like-minded
people who are working to nail their goals, just like you. In
discussion groups, participants “chat” with each other, propping
each other up, and providing encouragement. To join the
discussion you send an email with your comments to an email
address that forwards it to all members of the group.
From these groups, you can often get ideas for moving past
roadblocks to your progress. But pick them carefully—some
discussion groups can fill your inbox with dozens of emails
filled with nothing but idle chatter.
Another discussion option is the forum. When you join these
groups, you go to a website that hosts the discussion. You see
the comments of others on the webpage, and can add your thoughts
as well.
The advantage of the forum over the discussion group is that you
can choose whether to participate or not. You take the active
step of going to the website, rather than receiving dozens of
emails. Of course, most discussion groups give you the option to
receive a daily digest—one email that has all of the responses
for the entire day.
In spite of the potential for discussions on useless froth,
discussion groups and forums can provide you with help in
keeping yourself on track.
Audio Programs Many personal development authors are also very
accomplished speakers. Their programs are captured on cassette
or CD for you to enjoy at your convenience. Listening to audio
programs during your work commute provides a wonderful respite
from talk radio and the news. They fill that windshield time
with uplifting ideas. As with books, websites, and other
resources, listen to a variety of them, rather than finding one
personality you like and sticking with him or her.
Live Seminars Most of the audio programs discussed above are
recordings of live seminars. Occasionally, you would do well to
attend one of these events. These speakers transfer their
highly-charged energy to the audience—providing them with
insight and motivation.
This alternative can be quite expensive, so brace yourself. I
have provided some of the best at the end.
Tele-seminars Many personal development specialists, authors,
website and e-zine owners provide tele-seminars at little or no
cost. You register for the seminar, receive the phone number and
access code, and join with hundreds of others in hearing
speakers or panels discuss pertinent topics.
If you get the chance, join some of these. The speakers often
open the lines for questions at the end of their presentations.
They usually make their money by pointing you to their websites
where they are featuring a special offer for those who
participated.
About Author :
David DeFord is the owner of Ordinary People Can Win, a personal
development company dedicated to helping ordinary people achieve
extraordinary success in all areas of their lives. See his
website at http://www.OrdinaryPeopleCanWin.com and subscribe to
his free weekly e-zine. His new e-book, Ordinary People Can
Achieve the Extraordinary—A Practical Guide to Goal Achievement,
is available at
http://www.OrdinaryPeopleCanWin.com/extraordinaryachieve.htm