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08 Mar 2008 12:28:19 | Julie Jordan Scott
At an early point in my life, my father called me Sarah
Bernhardt. Miss Bernhardt was the premier actress of her day.
She was especially well known for her overemotional histrionics.
Each Sunday morning I put on an incredible show. My Mother would
go to church and leave me home with Dad. I would howl and cry
and throw myself on the floor in horror and as soon as she was
out the driveway? I moved on to something else. In rapid speed I
went from crying, lamenting and wailing to smiling, laughing and
exploring the world without Mom. I imagine church was the one
time my mother got away without one or more kids in tow. She
gave birth to the first five of us (I was number 4) in seven
years. I can now imagine Mom reveling in leaving the house each
Sunday morning. And I can imagine myself, giving it my all to
either bring her back or coax her into taking me along. When my
daughter Katherine was in the crawling stage, Dad was witness to
a very familiar scene. Kathie did as I had done thirty years
earlier. It was then that he told me my Sarah Bernhardt tale. He
laughed to see I gave birth to a natural performer as well.
Sarah Bernhardt said, "Life gets life. Energy creates energy. It
is by spending oneself that one becomes rich." Even before I
could speak I was practicing becoming passionately rich. Even
before Katherine could speak she was practicing becoming
passionately rich. Society's usual timeline is this: sometime
between crawling and junior high school, we forget how to
naturally spend ourselves. Instead, we adapt to spend ourselves
in what we decide is a more acceptable way. In a way that we
believe we will thrive. In a way that we will be accepted and
nurtured and loved, even if we have to wear a mask to receive
love. As we live, we have the opportunity to return to our
practice of passionate richness. That does not mean I crawl
around my house crying and wailing each time someone I love
leaves me! What it means for me is I am able to be truly myself
in each moment. I can be very emotional and upset AND let that
show through my face, my actions, my movements, my demeanor. It
does not mean I hurt anyone else, instead with it I purely
express what I am feeling. And then in the next moment, I can
choose to move from that lamenting to fully enjoying that
moment, and seeing what energy I can create within that context.
It does not mean that either demonstration is phoney or
incomplete or not true. Instead it means that in simply being me
that I become rich. Another legend from drama is William
Shakespeare who said this: "All the world's a stage, and the men
and women merely players. They have their exits and their
entrances, and one man in his time plays many ' parts." As we
play each part, as we joyfully create our lives, may we remember
to spend it freely. May we loosen ourselves from the strong
holds fear, doubt and previous prescriptions which have kept us
away from our truth. Choose to love and live with prosperity,
abundance and passionate riches. Passion Activator: In what ways
do you enter "the stage" as you truly are? When you interact
with those around you, do they ever mention times when there is
an obvious spark that appears in your words and actions? Ask
three of your trusted friends about a "Spark Time" they have
observed in you in the past month. Review those experiences in
your mind's eye. Glean the experience for Passionate Riches.
Make a choice to build more of those experiences into your
everyday experiences. As you do that one simple step, you will
get closer and closer to spending your life exactly as your
heart and soul desires. Activate Your Passion!
About Author :
Julie Jordan Scott is a Success Coach, Writer, Speaker, Radio
Host and Mom Extraordinaire who inspires people worldwide to
live more passionate lives through her personal and group
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