08 Mar 2008 12:28:06 | Kerul Kassel
10. Procrastination Condemnation - Lose the Labels! All those
things you call yourself, such as lazy, scattered, disorganized,
not good enough, incompetent, or stupid, for example, aren’t
helping you get things done, are they? You’ve learned to believe
them, and you think they’ve become something of a
self-fulfilling prophecy. If you look around yourself, though,
you’ll see evidence that you can accomplish quite a number of
things without delay.
9. Procrastination Exaggeration – Are you really
procrastinating, or are you simply focusing on other priorities?
It’s possible that those things you’re not doing shouldn’t get
done until sometimes later, perhaps not at all. Focus on only
the most significant areas first, and the rest will come.
8. Procrastination Temptation – If you hang out with people who
coax you to procrastinate, it’s time to start surrounding
yourself with better examples. If you know certain that
situations are too enticing and will lure you from following
through, create a work-around plan that will help you prevent
yourself from “taking the bait”.
7. Procrastination Alienation – Recognize that you’re not alone,
and are, in fact, in excellent company. Most people
procrastinate about something, sometimes about many things. In a
recent survey on procrastination, almost 1/3 of respondents who
identified themselves as procrastinators had a post-graduation
or higher education.
6. Procrastination Inclination – At the moment you are about to
procrastinate, stop for just a moment to acknowledge the
pattern, even if you continue on to put off whatever you were
going to do. Awareness and acceptance that these are your
current patterns is a necessary step in procrastination
extermination.
5. Procrastination Perspiration – You probably think that the
only way to stop procrastinating is to use will power and
discipline. While that certainly can work, it can cost you a lot
of energy and struggle. By allowing yourself to begin
recognizing what is specifically in the way of following
through, and creating simple new patterns, progress is pretty
painless and immediate. For more information, sign up for the
New Leaf Systems ezine at http://www.newleafsystems.com , and
the soon-to-be-published book The Power of Procrastination.
4. Procrastination Exploration – What is your procrastination
costing you? Do you have a procrastination reputation? Do you
continually have to make procrastination explanations or
reparations to others? Are you in procrastination isolation so
nobody will know what you’re not doing? Is your credit history
in procrastination degradation because of paying bills late? Are
you in procrastination desperation because you might lose your
job or significant relationships? Sometimes understanding how
badly you’re paying and in exactly what ways can provoke you to
seek assistance.
3. Procrastination Consultation – Talk with friends about how
they overcame procrastination. Buddy with them on their own
projects, holding each other accountable to get things done.
Hire a procrastination coach, someone who has worked with
hundreds of people and not only knows about procrastination
generation, but has helped many veteran procrastinators with
procrastination renunciation.
2. Procrastination Transformation – nothing helps you achieve
more easily than knowing all the steps you need to take, having
a plan to take them, scheduling that plan into your calendar,
creating incentives to make following through more attractive
(and consequences to make it less attractive!), and putting some
accountability supports into place. This, combined with a simple
procrastination meditation, will get you back on track quickly
and easily.
1. Procrastination Emancipation – Once you’ve fully understood
that one of the big reasons you have been procrastinating is
that you’re focusing only on finishing (and that’s too daunting)
you’ll begin to instead concentrate on starting, which is a much
more approachable and manageable way to get thing done. All you
need to do is keep starting, and finishing will take care of
itself.
About Author :
Kerul Kassel works with people who are procrastinators, or think
they are. She is currently writing a book: "The Power of
Procrastination" and is conducting a survey (which she'd love
for you to take: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.asp?u=32694765277
...you might even win a complimentary coaching appointment). She
also offers telephone classes. For more info, please visit
http://www.newleafsystems.com