08 Mar 2008 12:28:06 | Caroline Jalango
Are you still hoping and waiting for someone somewhere to come
to your rescue, wave a magic wand and instantaneously change
your life for the better?
Are you praying that you will one day win the lottery and
dramatically alter the financial quality of your life?
Are you sitting behind your desk, daydreaming and hoping to one
day rise to the top level of management without much effort and
hard work?
Are you hiding in the background, silently praying and hoping
that you will find favor, get noticed and be thrust into the
limelight of your destiny?
If you are tired of hoping and endlessly waiting for something
positive to happen or someone to come to your rescue, make a
deliberate decision today to take charge of your own life and
begin to lead a fulfilled and productive life.
4 things to consider as you decide to change your life for the
better.
1. Value yourself.
Value yourself, your life and your time. Value what you
represent. Don’t compromise what you are worth for anything.
Your current position may not accurately define who you are, but
if you place a high value on yourself, you will not only have
greater expectations for yourself, but also be open to more
possibilities and opportunities.
People who place a high value on themselves can confidently walk
into any arena of success and take their place comfortably. They
fit right in because this is what they have been waiting for
their whole lives and they know that they deserve it!
2. Take responsibility for your own destiny.
Be practical and stop expecting other people to rescue you from
your current distress. People can only do so much…the rest is up
to you and your God given abilities and resolve. Get rid of the
dependency syndrome! It incapacitates and blinds you from doing
great things with your life and getting the success you so much
yearn for.
If you are not going to be the recipient of a large inheritance
or if you have not yet won the lottery, begin to do the right
thing by charting your own road map to success and working
intelligently, meticulously and persistently to achieve your
success.
3. STOP doing what does not work!
If you desire to change your life for the better…take a minute
to consider specific aspects of your life over the last three
years. Have you seen any improvement in your business? Have you
lost weight? Are you still working at the same place that
stifles your creative abilities? Are you still in the dreaming
phase of that project you wanted to accomplish? Are you still
procrastinating about going back to school? Are you still doing
the same things that produce unproductive and dissatisfying
results?
How much longer can you keep doing the same things that don’t
work? You only have one life to live and if you plan to live a
fulfilled life, stop doing what doesn’t work, start doing the
things that work and change your life for the better.
4. Take a definite tangible action step today!
Changing your life for the better means doing something today
that produces results! If you can’t take radical steps, take
small deliberate steps towards the change you desire. One of the
greatest impediments to success is procrastination. It is so
often used as an excuse for inaction to the point that it has
become so mind-numbing!
No one wants to hear that the only reason why you have not
managed to turn your idea into reality is because you have been
procrastinating! People want to stand and cheer for the doer and
the achiever who has taken positive steps to improve the quality
of their lives. These are the inspiring stories that we read
about everyday and you too can be that story.
About Author :
Caroline Jalango is a life coach for unstoppable women who are
willing to step up to the plate and take a shot at living
exceptional lives wherever they are. caroline@motivationzone.com
www.motivationzone.com