26 Feb 2008 12:21:29 | Deirdre Maigread McEachern
"We come equipped with everything we need to experience a
powerful life full of joy, incredible passion, and profound
peace. The difficult part is giving ourselves permission to live
it." – Deborah Rosado Shaw
Today is a great day to practice slowing down and re-connecting
with what you enjoy most in life -- spending time appreciating
nature, barbequing with old friends, or expressing yourself
through a creative hobby such as painting or gardening. These
are what I call the "humble riches" of life. They don't
necessarily cost a lot of money but their "bang for your buck"
in terms of your quality of life is huge.
Often when we think of taking steps to improve our quality of
life we think about big steps --quitting a job, getting
physically fit or moving house. Today I would like to introduce
you to another approach. I call it Momentary Contentment. This
means not necessarily waiting for one of those perfect times
when everything feels completely in alignment and you wouldn't
change a thing, but rather, it is recognizing when you feel
mostly content. You may have a few worries about your life but
nothing so pressing that it stops you from enjoying the humble
riches that are available to you here and now.
Recognizing any moments of contentment, be they Momentary or
perfect, pulls you back in touch with what is good about your
day and your life. It lifts your spirits and naturally shifts
your mental state from your anxieties, worries, and concerns to
possibilities, appreciation, and gratitude.
Recently I was traveling on a morning commuter bus to Boston. As
I was riding along I was worrying about all the to-do's ahead of
me that day. Just then something caught my eye and I looked out
the window next to me. What a sight! Beautiful wispy clouds were
strewn across the blue summer sky. The silver glint of a jet was
flying across and leaving behind two streams of ethereal white
vapor. The tops of the nearby trees were bursting with full,
summery green leaves. The vibrant mix of colors looked like a
painting.
I thought to myself, "Ah ha! This is as close to a quiet,
contemplative moment as I'm likely to get all day. I feel mostly
content -- I have a few worries about my work day but nothing so
demanding as to stop me from taking this moment to enjoy the
view nature is offering to me."
I continued watching as the bright sunlight caught the edges of
some of the clouds and not others. The scene changed from moment
to moment in front of my eyes, never to be repeated in exactly
the same way again. White, Blue, Green. White feathery clouds,
blue skies and green trees. It was beautiful.
While gazing at this scene, my thoughts shifted to what a warm
and sunny day it was and how lucky I was to have such good
weather for my trip into the city. I couldn't have asked for a
better day for walking between bus stations and T stops and my
various meetings. Starting to feel gratitude for the good things
in the day, I effortlessly let go of the tension I had been
holding about the schedule of obligations laid out before me. I
was able to sit back and literally, enjoy the ride. I felt
blessed by life’s humble riches.
Think of this article as permission to give your self a few much
deserved breaks of Momentary Contentment this month. Why not
notice the world around you and revel in its wonders, call an
old friend you haven't talked to in a while, or take a half an
hour to do something you love?
Lucky you, these riches are yours for the taking. Enjoy!
About Author :
Deirdre Maigread McEachern is an experienced writer, speaker and
personal coach who works one-on-one to help her clients find
their ideal career and create more balance in their lives. You
can contact Deirdre at 207-439-4280, deirdre@vip-coaching.com or
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