24 Feb 2008 07:30:53 | Margaret Paul, Ph.D.
Most of us know that eating well and exercising is important for
good health. Yet often we hear about people100 years old and
older that are still vital and have not eaten perfectly or
exercised much. What is the secret of their good health?
Research indicates that a major factor in good health - more
important than genes, food, or exercise - is how we handle
stress.
Our bodies are equipped with a "fight or flight" mechanism that
enables us to mobilize our strength when necessary. This
mechanism allows us to fight or flee from real and present
danger. However, this mechanism is also activated when we
BELIEVE there is danger, even when no actual survival danger
exists.
For example, it is appropriate for the fight or flight mechanism
to activate if you are being physically attacked. When the
stress response is activated, blood is taken from our brain and
organs and put into our arms and legs to enable us to fight or
flee. Our immune system shuts down to give us more energy to
physically protect ourselves and ensure our survival in the
moment. Once the danger is over and we have discharged the
stress through fighting or running, our bodies go back to normal
and blood again flows to our brain and organs.
However, what if your thoughts are creating the stress? What if
you are imagining being attacked, or being rejected, or losing
money, or losing your job, or losing a loved one? In this case,
there is no actual real and present danger occurring in the
moment. Yet the body does not know the difference between
something that is really happening and something that you are
thinking about. The body goes into the stress response the
moment you think scary thoughts. But instead of being able to
fight or flee, you are stuck with the anxiety caused by your
thoughts. The blood is in your arms and legs with no way to be
released. You can't think very well due to as lack of blood in
your brain, your organs are being robbed of necessary nutrients,
and your immune system is not functioning properly. Strenuous
exercise may release the stress response, but if you keep
thinking the scary thoughts, it will just come right back.
Perhaps the most important thing you can do for your health and
wellbeing is to become conscious of your thoughts that create
stress and become adept at changing your thoughts. People who
have learned how to let challenging things roll off their back
generally have good health. People who allow the challenges of
life to constantly stress them out often have health problems,
even when they eat well and get exercise.
Our minds have been programmed from infancy with many untrue
thoughts - many false beliefs. It is when we think these untrue
thoughts that we cause ourselves anxiety and our bodies go into
the stress response. However, we all have a "Wise Self" that
knows truth from lies. When we move "out of our minds" and into
our knowing, we will stop thinking the thoughts that cause
anxiety and instead operate from the truth of our knowing.
Thoughts that are untrue cause anxiety. The truth brings peace.
If you have a thought that you cannot survive being rejected or
being alone, you will feel anxious. However, while this might
have been true as a child, it is not true as an adult. Your
anxious feeling is letting you know that your thought is untrue.
If you then think - from your Wise Self rather than from your
programmed mind: "I can handle rejection. I've been rejected
many times and I have not died. I've been alone many times and I
have not died," your body will release the anxiety and you will
feel peaceful. Your peaceful feeling is telling you that you are
now thinking the truth.
The very best thing you can do for your health and wellbeing is
to become aware of the thoughts from your programmed mind that
create anxiety, and practice thinking the truth from your Wise
Self that creates inner peace.
About Author :
Margaret Paul, Ph.D., best-selling author of eight books,
including "Do I Have To Give Up Me To Be Loved By You" and
co-creator of the powerful Inner Bonding healing process. Learn
Inner Bonding now! Visit her web site for a FREE Inner Bonding
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