24 Feb 2008 12:33:29 | Willie Krut
There are times when simply thinking positively won’t move you
past your fear and anxiety. There are times when simply plodding
it out is the thing you must do.
The Evangelical speaker Joyce Meyer says, “If you’re afraid to
do it, just DO IT AFRAID.” No one will blame you for being
fearful—what you will be blamed for is letting that fear
immobilize you. So no matter what it takes, keep moving.
Fear is much like a quagmire—it slurps at our feet and if we
stand still long enough, it begins to suck us down. It’s hard to
get out of, but it is possible.
If you’re stuck in fear as you shoot for success, there are
several ways out:
1.First, consider the source. Where did the fear come from? Have
you been dwelling on the difficulties instead of the
opportunities? Have you been listening to those who are cynics
and pessimists, instead of coaching yourself with positive words
and people? If so, MOVE ON. GET AWAY from people and situations
that drag you down.
2.Second, take your checklist and note what you HAVE
accomplished. Look at your list of goals and the baby steps
you’re taking to get there, and on a separate sheet of paper (or
a separate document in your computer), begin to list everything
you have accomplished. This will begin to empower you to move on
and leave the fear behind.
3.Third, take stock of your talents and skills. Fear often tells
us that we “don’t have what it takes…” Show fear as the liar it
is: list your skills, all your positive attributes. Then look at
the problem again, after you have a new appreciation for your
God-given talents and abilities.
4.Fourth, don’t underestimate the power of prayer. Regardless of
your spiritual beliefs, there is an amazing power that comes
from releasing your fear to a God Who loves you and is looking
out for you. Don’t bottle the fear up—let it go. You don’t need
it anyhow!
5.Finally, remember this acronym when facing fear:
a.F= False b.E= Evidence c.A=Appearing d.R=Real
For that’s really what fear is—it is an unrealistic look (false
look) at something and attempting to make you believe it
(appearing to be real).
Once you know these things, you’ll be able to move past your
fear and on to the next step you need to be successful! To learn
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