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24 Feb 2008 12:33:29 | Tammy Pinarbasi
Spending quality time with your children doesn’t need to cost a
lot of money. What’s most important, is that you take the
opportunity to bond with them. The time that you spend with your
children will make them feel special and they will treasure it
for a lifetime. Letting your children know that you are there
for them, will create a lasting bond between you and your
children. The winter months can be rather dull for children
since they are cooped up in the house more than they would like
to be. This is a great time for you to let your children know
you feel their discomfort by giving them some one on one
attention from mom. It doesn't require a great deal of money to
make those boring winter days stuck indoors special. One simple
and inexpensive suggestion would be to make a plan with your
child to watch his or her favorite television program or video
together. Too much TV is not always a good thing, however, to
get through a winter day trapped indoors, it's a perfect
activity. Shortly before you watch the program or movie you have
selected with your children, ask them to help prepare some of
their favorite snacks for the event. All children love to help
mom mess up the kitchen a bit and especially if it means eating
their favorite snack foods. A couple quick and easy snack
suggestions would be preparing smores, which happens to be my
children's favorite snack food. Not only do they like to eat
them, but they love making them. Another suggestion might be
what my kids like to call roller coaster snacks. Simply take a
leaf of lettuce, a slice of cheese, and slice of lunch meat and
layer them and then roll them up to make a healthy, but fun
treat. I find that the Kraft singles work best for rolling.
Usually, while my children assemble the snacks, I pour the
drinks because my children tend to spill easily. While having
fun in the kitchen, be sure to monitor your children closely,
especially if there is any heating to be done. Most often, if
things need to be warmed up a bit, I prefer to handle that task
myself. Always remember, Safety First when cooking in the
kitchen with children. Your children will be delighted they were
able to help you prepare the snacks and you will find they take
their job seriously. In order to let your kids know that this is
their special time with you, take the appropriate steps to make
sure it’s an uninterrupted time together. Turn off the phones,
put the work away, and the cleaning can wait till after the big
event. Once, the food is prepared, simply sit back and enjoy the
show. A few other winter time activities for you and your
children might be to go through all those photos you need to
organize and place them in photo albums. Your child will love to
reminisce with you and most of all, you will bond. You may also
let your children help plan the dinner menu one night and let
them help prepare it with you. Spending time with your child
doesn’t have to cost a lot of money or be complicated. Most
often just including them in a task you already have at hand is
a special treat for them. For many children, it's not about what
you are doing, but to know they have your attention. Take these
moments to talk and most importantly, listen to your children.
You might be surprised at how much your children will open up
when they feel they have your undivided attention.
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This article is written by Tammy Pinarbasi, Owner of the Parent
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