24 Feb 2008 12:33:15 | Stephanie West Allen
Want a surefire way a way to become more creative? Let your
rascal out.
Your Rascal in the Corner
Dennis the Menace was always being put in the corner for doing
something bad. Yet the bad thing he did caused us to laugh
because there was something so real and true about that person
in the corner.
Many of us have put the rascal part of ourselves in the corner,
banished.
The one in the corner is unpremeditated, impetuous, mischievous,
impish, prankish, high-spirited, capricious, idle, playful,
spontaneous, fun-loving, irrepressible, incorrigible. I could go
on and on.
And this one laughs a lot and makes others laugh. So why is it
kept in the corner so often?
The Ubiquitous Appropriate Person -- Yawn!
Because our society has a different list of adjectives to apply
to the Appropriate Person: responsible, reliable, liable,
dependable, capable, efficient, moderate . . . you get the
picture of this Appropriate Person. These adjectives certainly
do not describe the wrong way to be, unless they are the ONLY
adjectives that describe a person. Boring.
If we let him or her out, the one in the corner may do something
inappropriate. He or she may speak a nugget of truth around
which everyone else tiptoes. Or dress in colorful clothes
unworried about matching one garment to another. Or sing at any
time — off-key. Or skip through the dining room. Or take a bite
of someone else’s dessert. Who knows what might happen if the
rascal comes out of the corner?
Guess Who Came to Dinner?
I would much rather have dinner with the rascal in the corner
than with the Appropriate Person. The meal likely would be much
less boring and probably filled with much more laughter. With
whom would you rather have dinner? Honestly, now. The rascal or
the Appropriate Person?
Grow UP, Amount of Laughter Goes DOWN
Children laugh a lot. Adults laugh much less frequently.
Something happens to lessen laughter. Part of what decreases the
laughter is putting our rascals in the corner.
Arthur Schopenhauer said, “There is no absurdity so palpable but
that it may be firmly planted in the human head if you only
begin it before the age of five, by constantly repeating it with
an air of great solemnity.” It is silly to diminish laughter but
it is firmly planted in heads of many of us by the time we are
adults that it is not appropriate to laugh frequently.
The one in the corner still laughs a lot.
Please Come Out to Play
So many benefits to letting the one in the corner out to play.
If you do not, you must expend lots of energy to keep it in the
corner. It is irrepressible and looks for ways everyday to come
out. Watch for it.
And if you do let it out, it probably will not do anything that
naughty. And if it does, so what? It will give you energy and
originality and creativity and memorable moments, and lots of
laughter. Promise.
And Today . . .
At 9AM, noon, 3PM, 6PM, and 9PM, check in with yourself and
locate your rascal. Is he or he in the corner watching the
Appropriate Person? Out having a good time? Where else? Record
your rascal’s whereabouts.
Be sure to let him or her out at least once today -- maybe to
play with someone else’s rascal. Let’s hold an enormous
gathering of rascals. What a time that will be. You are
officially invited.
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About Author :
Stephanie West Allen, JD, brings humor and motivation to
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