24 Feb 2008 12:33:15 | Christine McGogy
How would you like to remove the barriers that could be holding
you back from getting and staying rich for the rest of your
life?
First, you should change your relationship to money from the
negative to the positive before you can turn your cash flow to
where you want it to be.
Have you ever heard of the money tree? It’s a metaphor for
securing financial success. If you'd like to become wealthy, you
need to make sure that your money tree can grow big. To do that,
it needs strong roots and a fertile ground to grow in.
It's really what's under the ground that creates what's above
the ground. It's the invisible that creates the visible. So you
will have to "grow better roots", meaning you have to change the
beliefs you have about money. If they are rooted in negativity
then it acts like a poison and your money tree won't bear any
fruit (money).
On the other hand, a money mindset rooted in positivity creates
a healthy, strong money tree that will bear lots of fruit!
Hey, you are probably thinking that you already feel positive
about money. Who doesn't want more money?
The truth is that we all have some unhealthy issues concerning
money - we just aren't always aware of those issues!
1. Change Your ‘Money Settings’ You were taught how to think
about and handle money whether or not you realize it. At the
same time, you developed specific attitudes towards money. When
you were younger, you had many sources of influences about
money; like parents, siblings, friends, teachers, religious
leaders, media and the culture we all live in as well. And this
conditioning about money stays with you for the rest of your
life unless you do something about it right now!
Once you are aware of your money mindset you can make the choice
to change it around to the positive and get you going towards
the riches you deserve.
It's important for you to take a few minutes to go over these
"Money Beliefs". Did you ever hear phrases like this?
•Money is the root of all evil •Rich people are greedy •You
can't be rich and spiritual •Money doesn't buy happiness •And
the famous…”We can't afford it” •Money corrupts •Money doesn't
matter •There is not enough to go around •You don't deserve to
have that •Money changes people •Having lots of money is a
hassle •To be rich, you have to use people and take advantage of
them • I’m not smart or educated enough • If you are not born
rich, chances are you will never be rich
and also, if you were rich, then.....
• I could lose it and be a failure • I would never know if
people like me for myself or my money • Everyone is going to
want a handout
Secondly what are your parents/guardians like in the arena of
money? Are they managing their money well? Are they spenders or
savers? Does money come easily in your family or is it a
struggle? Is money a source of joy or the cause of bitter
arguments? Can you think of a specific incident in your family
that had to do with money?
With all these attitudes and influences surrounding you all your
life, it is no surprise then that you unconsciously will shy
away from having and keeping lots of money, is it? Wealthy
people do not think about money in these negative terms. They
know that by having lots of money they are able to give back to
the world in many ways. The best way to help poor people is to
not be one of them
2. Take Control You need to know that now YOU are at the
steering wheel of your life. You create every moment in your
life, especially your financial life. If you don't believe this,
then you may believe that you have little or no control over
your life and that financial success has nothing to do with you.
This is very negative; instead of taking responsibility for
what's going on in your life, you are choosing to play the role
of the victim. Of course, any victim's thought process includes
thinking "poor me". The problem is, thinking like that gets you
nowhere, and before you know it that’s exactly what you’ll be –
a poor you!
3. Stop the Blame You can blame the economy, the type of
business, the government etc. You can use excuses and justify
yourself for not doing well financially, for example, "I don't
have the right education" or "I don't live in the right part of
the country", "I am not smart enough" or "I don't know the right
people” and so on. However, these things aren’t true. You can
succeed anywhere, and the first step in that success is getting
a better outlook on your situation and environment.
4. Banish Pessimism Complaining a lot doesn't help your finances
either. While you complain you are focusing on the negative
parts of yourself that you may not like. This reinforces bad
thoughts you may be having about yourself, and it actually
causes you to attract more negativity. So do yourself a huge
favor and stop complaining or blaming or justifying. You are
only putting yourself in the role of a victim and there is no
such thing as a rich victim!
5. Count your Blessings It's also important for you to see the
blessings around you right now, however small they may seem.
Each of us living in North America is actually rich already
compared to other parts of the world. We have so much available
to us, like roads, towns/cities and stores, public places like
libraries, swimming pools, parks, arenas etc. See yourself
having abundance right now and it's from that standpoint that
you can go towards receiving an abundance of money as well.
If only I had changed my "money settings" as a teenager! I would
have been financially free a lot sooner. I used to think that
becoming wealthy was only for other people. The truth is that
you can become rich and you deserve to!
I highly recommend the book Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert
Kiyosaki, (ISBN: 0446693219) for you to begin understanding more
about becoming financially free, using the money concepts rich
people use to help you put money in your pocket and not out of
it.
It should be available at most libraries.
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