23 Feb 2008 10:27:41 | Dr. Jamie Fettig
You probably are very familiar with the benefits you get from
NOT eating healthy. You get to eat food that tastes good, you
get to be lazy and sit on the couch and veg out and watch TV.
You get to not do all the hard work of exercise. There are many
other benefits that people get from not eating healthy, and many
others that I probably did not list. I am not going to list them
all, because you know most of them. I will list the benefits
most people do not want to admit, often, even to themselves.
There are four main benefits that you probably get from not
eating healthy, that you don’t want to admit (along with the
obvious ones):
1.Avoiding being responsible 2.Getting to be right and making
others wrong 3.Dominating others and avoiding domination
4.Justifying yourself and invalidating others.
These things are the hidden benefits. I will talk about each of
them in more detail, and explain what I mean. You have to dig
down and be honest, though. These four things are usually true
for everyone, and the point of my sharing them is to make you
aware of them, and for you to be honest with yourself about
them. Most people do not think of these things as benefits. But
if you look at them and are really honest with yourself, you
will see the benefit people get from them.
People get to avoid being responsible by putting the
responsibility on the medical symptoms and disease care system.
You live under the illusion that they will create a magic pill
or invent some technique or system to make you thin and healthy
without you having to do a thing. They are responsible for your
health, not you. It is an illusion many of us believe. Because
then we get to avoid being responsible for our own health and
eat anything we want. We get to do what we want, and then blame
all of our symptoms on someone else.
You get to be right and do exactly what you want. You don’t have
to listen to all those doctors, all those people, especially
that annoying “health freak” in your family. Every family
usually has one. You get to be right about being able to do what
you want. You get to make them wrong. And don’t we all enjoy
making someone we don’t like so very wrong? We all want to be
right and I can prove it. Have you every seen someone try and
prove themselves wrong? Argue that they are not right? People
love to be right and that includes being right with being able
to eat whatever they want for whatever reasons they want.
You get to dominate others, and avoid others’ dominating you.
You do not have to do what they say. You can do what you want.
You can probably even control people and make them angry by
doing things your way, by doing what you want.
You get to justify yourself and invalidate others. You get proof
for yourself that what you are doing is right. You get evidence
that the way you are doing it is right. You get to make sure
that other people’s way of thinking is wrong, and make sure they
know you know they are wrong.
These are the hidden benefits that many people get for not
eating healthy. Benefits that, if you are honest with yourself,
you like getting as well.
What I am also going to point out is the not-so-obvious cost of
not being healthy. There are benefits to eating junk food. But,
as you know, nothing in life is free. If there is a benefit,
there is a cost. What most people do not see is the cost, the
price you have to pay for the benefits you are getting.
There are also tons and tons of hidden costs that most people
never see. I will list some of the biggest ones. This is the
price you have to pay to eating junk food:
1.Vitality 2.An abundance of energy to do everything you want to
do 3.Happiness 4.Love and closeness with others 5.Satisfaction
and fulfillment in life 6.Healing symptoms and disease
7.Symptoms and disease going away, 8.Relief from the suffering
that goes with the symptoms and disease 9.Inner peace and
harmony 10. Being symptom- and disease-free 11. Mental focus,
memory, and clarity (no brain fog) 12. Being awake and fully
alive every day (not just dragging through stuff and surviving)
13. Being present and having the ability to be with people 14.
No worry or fear 15. Being confident in yourself 16. Being
complete and happy 17. The ability to deal with issues that
arise simply and with ease 18. Having better health now, with
security for yourself and your family later 19. More time to do
what you want to do 20. Simpler choices 21. Looking great,
feeling good, reducing fat, and having tons of energy 22. Being
satisfied and Not being hungry all the time
The list goes on and on, but these are some of the big ones.
These are all things you do NOT get if you avoid eating healthy.
It is the price you have to pay to not eat healthy.
If you are eating healthy, these same things are your rewards.
These are the things you get when you are well. These things
show up in your life as you are being healthy and well. So much
so, that I want you to think of your own reasons why, things
vital to your happiness, freedom and life that you know you
would get you out of bed for in the morning wanting to eat
healthy.
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