23 Feb 2008 09:07:53 | Dean Phillips
This article explains how to send effective e-mail replies. It
also discusses why proper e-mail etiquette is necessary, and
lists e-mail etiquette rules:
1. Always, Always, Always use a greeting.
Whatever happened to good old fashion courtesy and manners? For
whatever reason, people just aren't as nice or considerate
nowadays as they used to be.
For instance, I'm always amazed how many e-mails I receive that
don't contain a single "hi," "hello," "good morning"-- nothing!
I just don't understand why people treat e-mail so casually,
because e-mail is a form of communication and is really no
different than answering your telephone and saying "hello." It's
just the courteous thing to do.
You have to realize, people who don't know you form opinions and
impressions about you, based on your e-mail communications. And
if you come across as cold, rude, indifferent or unfriendly,
it's a direct reflection on you and your company and it will
negatively impact your business. Let's face it, we all like to
do business with people we like.
Now if you're corresponding back and forth with someone several
times a day, it's certainly not necessary to greet them in every
single e-mail. However, your initial e-mail should always
contain a greeting of some sort.
2. Be concise and to the point.
Don't make an e-mail longer than it needs to be. Remember that
reading an e-mail is harder than reading printed communications
and a long e-mail can be very trying to read.
3. Answer all questions, and pre-empt further questions.
An e-mail reply must answer all questions, and pre- empt further
questions - If you do not answer all the questions in the
original e-mail, you will receive further e-mails regarding the
unanswered questions, which will not only waste your time and
your customer's time but also cause considerable frustration.
4. Always reply promptly.
People send an e-mail because they wish to receive a quick
response. If they did not want a quick response they would send
a letter or a fax. Therefore, each e-mail should be replied to
within at least 24 hours, and preferably within the same working
day. There's just no excuse not to be able to do that. If the
e-mail is complicated, just send an e- mail back saying that you
have received it and that you will get back to them shortly.
5. Do not attach unnecessary files.
By sending large attachments you can annoy customers and even
bring down their e-mail system. Wherever possible try to
compress attachments and only send attachments when they are
productive. Moreover, you need to have a good virus scanner in
place since your customers will not be very happy if you send
them documents full of viruses!
6. Do not write in all CAPITALS.
IF YOU WRITE IN ALL CAPITALS, IT IS CONSIDERED SHOUTING. This
can be highly annoying and might trigger an unwanted response in
the form of a flame mail. Therefore, try not to send any e-mail
text in capitals.
7. Don't leave out the message thread.
When you reply to an e-mail, you must include the original mail
in your reply, in other words click 'Reply', instead of 'New
Mail'. Some people say that you must remove the previous message
since this has already been sent and is therefore unnecessary.
However, I disagree. If you receive many e-mails, you obviously
cannot remember each individual e-mail. This means that a
'threadless e-mail' will not provide enough information and you
will have to spend a frustratingly long time to find out the
context of the e- mail in order to deal with it. Leaving the
thread might take a fraction longer in download time, but it
will save the recipient much more time and frustration in
looking for the related e-mails in their inbox!
8. Always proofread your e-mail before you send it.
A lot of people don't bother to read their e-mail before they
send it out. This is evidenced by the many spelling and grammar
mistakes contained in e-mails. Apart from this, reading your
e-mail through the eyes of the recipient will help you send a
more effective message and avoid misunderstandings and
inappropriate comments.
9. Mass Mailings: Use the Bcc: field or do a mail merge.
When sending an e-mail mailing, some people place all the e-
mail addresses in the To: field. There are two drawbacks to this
practice: (1) the recipient knows that you have sent the same
message to a large number of recipients, and (2) you are
publicizing someone else's e-mail address without their
permission. One way to get round this is to place all addresses
in the Bcc: field.
However, the recipient will only see the address from the To:
field in their e-mail, so if this was empty, the To: field will
be blank and this might look like spamming. You could include
the mailing list e-mail address in the To: field, or even
better, if you have Microsoft Outlook and Word you can do a mail
merge and create one message for each recipient. A mail merge
also allows you to use fields in the message so that you can for
instance address each recipient personally.
10. Be careful with abbreviations and emoticons.
In business e-mails, try not to use abbreviations such as BTW
(by the way) and LOL (laugh out loud). The recipient might not
be aware of the meanings of the abbreviations and in business
e-mails these are generally not appropriate. The same goes for
emoticons, such as the smiley :-). If you are not sure whether
your recipient knows what it means, it is better not to use it.
11. Don't forward virus hoaxes and chain letters.
If you receive an e-mail message warning you of a new super
virus that will immediately delete everything from your
computer, this is most likely a hoax. By forwarding hoaxes you
use valuable bandwidth and sometimes virus hoaxes contain
viruses themselves, by attaching a so-called file that will stop
the super virus.
The same goes for chain letters that promise incredible riches
or ask your help for a charitable cause. Even if the content
seems to be bona fide, the senders are usually not. Since it is
impossible to determine whether a chain letter is real or not,
the best place for ALL chain letters is the recycle bin.
12. Never make any libelous, sexist or racially discriminating
comments in e-mails, even if they are meant to be a joke.
There's nothing remotely funny about those types of comments.
All they do is perpetuate an ugly, endless cycle of ignorance
and intolerance.
13. Don't send or forward e-mails containing libelous,
defamatory, offensive, racist or obscene remarks.
By sending or even just forwarding one libelous, or offensive
remark in an e-mail, you and your company can face court cases
resulting in multi-million dollar penalties.
There's too much of this garbage already being circulated on the
Internet. Don't get involved with this ignorant and
irresponsible behavior.
14. Don't reply to SPAM.
By replying to SPAM or by unsubscribing, you are confirming that
your e-mail address is "live." Confirming this will only
generate even more SPAM. Therefore, just hit the delete button
or use e-mail software to remove SPAM automatically.
About Author :
Dean Phillips is an Internet marketing expert, writer, publisher
and entrepreneur. Questions? Comments? Dean can be reached at
mailto: dean@lets-make-money.net