23 Feb 2008 03:21:36 | Steve Brummet
One of the great secrets to success is just jumping in. This
“Rest of the Story” style article tells us that our efforts
affect more than just the person attaining success.
I stepped up to the edge and looked down. I closed my eyes, took
a deep breath... and jumped in head first.
The summer I turned 13 was spent at the swimming pool. We swam
at a huge olympic size pool with three diving boards at one end,
two low dives and one high dive.
I had bragged to my friends that I could execute the perfect
swan dive off the high board. Eventually, I was challenged to
prove it. No problem. I believed that I could. In my
imagination, I saw myself walking to the edge of the board and
launching! I believed I could that is until I began to climb the
ladder. At the top I realized I had gotten into more than I
could just jump out of. It was a lot farther looking down than
looking up. I started to back out, but the next kid in line was
at the top of the ladder yelling, “It’s my turn!”
I heard the sound of other kids playing safely at ground level.
I looked and saw the mocking smiles on the faces of my friends.
I took a deep breath and dredged up my courage and jumped in
head first.
For a moment, my dive was perfect. Then my feet flipped over my
head and I landed with a terrific force in the most awful belly
flop you could imagine. The wind was knocked out of me so badly
I thought the lifeguard would have to fish me out.
I failed miserably, but I learned something. I learned to keep
my big mouth shut. I also learned that sometimes the best way to
reach your goals is to jump in head first. I have since learned
that when you do accomplish your goals, your successes will
affect many lives other than your own.
I read about a head firster recently. Anne and her brother Jim
were a brother and sister with big problems. their mother died
when they were young. Their alcoholic dad just disappeared. Anne
legally blind, was only able to make out blurry shapes. Jim had
a tubercular hip and walked with crutches. No one knew what to
do with them so they were disposed of at the poorhouse in
Tewksbury Massachusetts.
The Tewksbury poorhouse was a repository for human refuse. All
the people that society did not have a place for ended up in
places like this.
A living nightmare, Tewksbury housed children with the insane,
the healthy with the contagious. The food was always bad, often
rotten. At night, The rats were in charge.
Anne insisted that she and Jim be together. A wish that was
honored until Jim died suddenly in the night. Anne was all alone
now. Afraid but sure she could do better.
Her chance for escape came when an investigative committee came
to tour the Tewksbury facility in response to rumors of ill
treatment and misconduct.
This committee was led by Frank Sanborn. Anne knew that Sanborn
could get her out of Tewksbury, if she could just get his
attention.
Anne followed the investigators from room to room trying to
discern which of them was Sanborn. When the committee ended
their tour and was about to leave, Anne still had not identified
Sanborn.
Anne literally jumped in head first. She dove into the midst of
the entire committee. grabbing hold of skirt hems and pant legs,
she pleaded - "I don't belong here! I want to go to school!".
Anne’s plea did get Sanborn’s attention. He helped her get out
of Tewksbury and into school. 6 years later at the age of 20,
Anne graduated from the Perkins School for the blind as the
valedictorian of her class. She even received surgery to correct
her eyesight.
This could be the end of a happy story, but Anne’s successes
extend far beyond her own life. Anne’s habit of jumping in head
first was about to help someone else.
Anne received a call requesting that she become the private
teacher to a difficult student. She had become quite an
innovative educational theorist. Now it was time to exercise her
theory’s in real life.
When Anne arrived at the home of her new student, she saw that
she did have an incredible challenge before her. As usual, Anne
dove in. Working with her new student day and night she was able
to pierce the darkness and break through the silence that had
held her pupil captive.
The teacher, Annie Sullivan was able to finally reach through
and communicate with her student, Helen Keller.
When it is time for you to reach for your dreams, close your
eyes, take a deep breath... and jump in head first.
About Author :
Steve Brummet is a communication expert, writer and speaker who
works with all types of organizations to increase understanding
of communication styles. 
