23 Feb 2008 03:21:36 | Ed Hirsch
Like a photograph reflects or represents the image photographed
... The way we live our lives and who we are continually
becoming over time reflects and represents the true beliefs we
carry in our heart.
External appearance is nothing more than a mere Window dressing
to what is really going on.
In Business, especially when searching high and low for quality
Business Partners ... we should definitely put requirements on
other people before qualifying them as actual partners. We want
to get into Relationship with them to ensure we agree that we
have mutual understandings ... and if we don't, they may Know
someone who they may refer to us who DO meet our Partnership
standard.
My point is that we should pursue Relationship first ... and by
making this the priority, we will naturally Network and find
whatever it is we are searching for in life and business.
The simple concept of Caring about people will take you a long
way in business.
Many times in business, we do not put people first, and I have
learned that whenever this is perceived by others, almost
immediately, relationship is lost. Also, when communication is
lost or slows down, this is the first symptom of losing
relationship.
Sharing from the Heart is a great way for unconditional
relationships ... being honest, but, not too honest where you
don't consider the other person's feelings. Nobody likes to be
made to feel like they are wrong, so we should only encourage
when they are right ... and when they are wrong, be specific to
the THING they DID that was wrong, not that THEY were wrong. In
this way, hopefully, relationship will be improved because you
are demonstrating that you care enough about them to have made
them aware of doing something better that behooves THEM.
I think its best to Pursue relationships that enable you to
cultivate your own true beliefs and aspirations. It certainly
makes for a great positive role model example for others to
follow in.
Make friends and try to be in relationship with everyone you
know ... however, watch your time and ensure that your time is
used wisely, aligned with your life purpose.
Thomas Edison wrote, "Good things come to those who wait, but
only what's left over from those who hustle."
Are you going to wait to get into high quality relationships in
your life, ... Or are you Ready to Go For It and become the
person you truly want to be, having others in your life who feel
the same way?
When you think, decide, and take action on one single idea, you
are a much better person than someone who learns hundreds of
ideas but who does nothing.
The faster you move;
the more experiences you have and the more lessons you learn,
the smarter and more capable you become,
the more ground you cover,
the more people you meet,
the more opportunities you discover,
the more doors open for you,
the more energy you have,
the more enthusiastic and confident you become,
the more creative and competent you become in any area,
the more you get done,
the more capable you become of doing even more.
Develop the deep-down habit of action orientation.
The more you *try,* the more you will *tri-umph.*
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Ed Hirsch mailto:ed@dreamstyles.com ICQ# 55939361 650-872-1024
So. San Francisco, California