23 Feb 2008 03:21:29 | Frank Duru
Honour and respect are two of the most important elements in
Asian culture, and they shouldn't be overlooked when it comes to
dating. For instance, traditionally, Asian women are taught at a
young age to know their place around men, treat them with
respect and accommodate them, while men are taught to protect
and provide for the women. Although these traditions have become
a faded practice in Western culture, respect still plays an
important role in the Asian dating scene.
If you are Asian and are seeking a serious relationship with a
man or woman from your ethnic culture, you will need to take
into consideration that every move you make could be watched
carefully by your partner's family, who may very well act as the
third party to your date. With this in mind, here are a few tips
you will want to think about when you begin dating:
Make an Impression -Be on your best behaviour. Listen to your
date, create casual conversation, and be accommodating and
thoughtful.
Treat your Date with Respect - Remember the saying "treat others
as you would like to be treated", well this is when it really
counts. Be considerate and patient, even if you find the topic
of conversation to be of little interest to you. You should
acknowledge what is important to your date and respect it.
Give them space - You don't want to come on too strong in the
relationship, as this could either scare off your date, or make
him or her jump to wrong conclusions. Creating a comfortable
dating experience is the best way for you to discover if what
you have found is an acquaintance, friend or potential lover.
Every once in a while visit the planet Earth - Be careful not to
be mislead into believing that your dating relationship is
something more than it is. Remember, not everyone is seeking a
long term commitment (which could include you) therefore, before
you let your imagination run wild from misinterpretation, make
sure you take a realistic look at the relationship that is
developing.
Above All have fun - Let's face it, the whole point to dating is
about having a good time, and enjoying the other person's
company, so don't be afraid to loosen up. Let your personality
shine and take pleasure in your dating experiences.
In the end all that should matter when it comes down to dating,
is that you and your date enjoy one another's company, are
comfortable together, and share similar interests and values. If
you find that there is no chemistry forming, it's time to say
goodbye, and move on, regardless of how much your family may
like him or her. After all, it is you who has to make the choice
when it comes to your love life, for only you can determine who
truly makes you happy. Therefore, grant yourself the respect and
honour of making and standing by your dating decisions.
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