23 Feb 2008 03:21:11 | Rhoberta Shaler
Have you ever taken an acting class and been challenged to
imagine as many uses as possible for some simple household
object? It is a wonderful exercise in creativity. Try it. Go to
the kitchen, find a tool you use every day and imagine all
possible uses for it. Well, that seems to me to be the gist of
this quote. It is creative to find new ways of doing things
using the resources we have at hand.
A short while ago, I was having a conversation with a good
friend. She was telling me that she was about to commit to a
network marketing company and that she was sure that she had
found the perfect career. It was terrific to hear the certainty
and excitement in her voice. She went on, however, to tell me
that now, before even signing the paper to begin, she needed a
new apartment with a separate room for an office, a fax machine,
a new printer and other office fixtures. Why? Because, to her,
this was what it would take to be successful. I suggested that
small steps might be more empowering than large debt...perhaps
she could use the things she has until growing is warranted.
Have you ever had the experience of thinking that you cannot
begin a project until you have everything that you could
possibly need before you start?
What could you do right now with the things you have at hand?
What changes could you make in your life right now just by
deciding to do so? We do not have to wait until we lose twenty
pounds, clean out our basements and garages, and take back our
library books, to move ourselves forward, although those things
make admirable and important beginnings, too. You can do things
simultaneously, can't you? You can follow Ernest Hemmingway’s
advice: “Now is no time to think of what you do not have. Think
of what you can do with what there is.”
For today, if you find yourself saying "I would like to do that
if only I had _______ or if only I was _____", or anything close
to that, change your focus. Ask yourself, "What steps could I
take right now towards what I want to bring into my life, using
my present skills, talents, desires and resources?" It's a great
place to begin.
About Author :
Dr. Shaler speaks to thousands of people each year giving them
and their organizations ‘The OK’s to SUCCEED!" --the
Optimization Keys to lift their sights and elevate results from
acceptable to EXCEPTIONAL. She is the author of 'Optimize Your
Day! Practical Wisdom for Optimal Living’. Her book as well as
her free ezines are available from her website,
www.OptimizeLifeNow.com