23 Feb 2008 03:21:11 | Karin Syren
Copyright 2005 So-lu'shunz Management Services
Are you ready to birth a dream and not sure about the process,
wondering if you are stepping out too far this time? Will God
bless your dream, or is it His dream you're nurturing? Consider
a pregnant woman. We've all had opportunity to observe the
process, if not actually experience it.
A pregnant woman knows that the dream growing inside her will
come into the world according to the established birth process
and unless an interruption interferes with the process, it will
occur. She needn't understand or aid the process in any way
until the very end, when the process will urgently prompt her
participation! Her part is to provide the right internal
atmosphere for growth and, as the time approaches, to set the
stage, preparing the external atmosphere for the arrival. How
does this process unfold and what is the mother's role?
1. Conception - Shortly after conception a woman begins to
notice changes, subtle at first, becoming more pronounced with
time. She knows her course has changed, though she sees nothing
and her routine is barely altered. Her vision expands with the
knowledge of what is barely perceptible.
2. Growth - Internal changes occur from the first, though no one
is aware of anything but a change in demeanor, a rosier
complexion, a faraway look. She knows without seeing - faith
appears.
3. Naming - At some point, before birth in most cases, the dream
is named and the name is tried on for size. Named for what the
dream represents - - still nothing is visible. Knowing a name is
intended to relate characteristics of the individual, the
parents of this dream use their faith to call this dream
according to what they want it to become. They are "calling
things that be not (seen) as though they are (seen)." (Romans
4:17)
4. Birth - As the process of transferring the dream into the
world begins, the mother may be uncertain how a dream of this
size can ever manifest itself! Though weary, and often
discouraged at the length of time and energy required, she knows
it will happen, though she may be uncertain of her ability to
endure.
This is where we often give up. In the natural world, the
process will occur regardless of the mother's fatigue or
misgivings, though she may require assistance and encouragement
at this point. This same point is when spiritual "dream
birthers" often require assistance, coaching, to remain diligent
and on track.
Unlike the natural birth process, the birth of a dream can he
halted at this point, if you don't stay encouraged in the
promises of God, and surround yourself with people who
understand dream birthing, who will coach you and challenge you
to press on.
At no point, once the dream has begun to rearrange the mother's
life, expanding her body and her vision, changing her appetites
and her needs, does she say "what if it isn't real? What if
there's really nothing to it at all?" Absurd, but often we do
just that with the dreams we carry. Rather than nurture, we
question. What if this wasn't God's idea after all? What if this
was conceived of my own imagination?
God is the God of process, and the natural world's processes
mirror those of the spiritual world. The Bible tells us in
Romans 12:2, that we have three options, the good will of God,
the acceptable will of God and the perfect will of God.
1. Perfect Will of God - The dream is totally God's idea - - His
perfect will.
2. Acceptable Will of God - It's a "God-approved" idea.
3. Good Will of God - It's your idea, not necessarily God's best
for you and perhaps you really haven't sought Him earnestly
concerning it. In your heart, however, and in your life you
desire to honor Him.
Will He bless all three? Almost certainly, if you are operating
under Godly principles, if your character is strong, and your
integrity is at the forefront. But there's one more
possibility...
4. Contrary to God's Will - This is NOT God's will - what then
is it? Sin, sickness, disease, sorrow, grief, etc. are all
contrary to God's will. If you've conceived your dream based on
these, you're surely not concerned with God's desires.
Congratulations! What do you do now? Make room for it; make
provision for it; nurture it by staying in close contact with
the Father through prayer and time in the Word, renewing your
mind to His perfect will. Commit it to Him - - after all, He is
the author of the process. Study the following scriptures and be
encouraged, knowing He has spoken to you about your dream: Psalm
37:4, 5; Isaiah 46:11b; Isaiah 54:2,3; Ephesians 3:20,21.
See you in the Delivery Room!
About Author :
Karin Syren is a certified coach, concentrating on women's
needs, helping leaders clearly identify issues facing them,
coaching them through the steps to gaining, regaining, and
maintaining control of juggling the intense demands &
transitions facing them. She offers guidance in discovering
mission, creating vision & designing goals. For information & to
schedule a complementary session, please see her website at
http://www.solushunz.com.