22 Feb 2008 03:51:47 | Anthony Mullins
“To accomplish great things we must not only act, but also
dream, not only plan, but also believe.”(Anatole France) While
these three items define success, without all of them success
would be unattainable. Without a dream, you will be without
desire and without desire, you will be without action. If you
can unlock the dream, then you can unlock success and make your
dream reality.
Take a look back across your life and at the difficult things
that you have already accomplished. For some, finishing high
school seemed impossible only to graduate from college. Others
set out for a career and ended up owning their own business. No
matter who you are, you have accomplished many things in your
life. I venture to say that many of your accomplishments were at
one time or another, a goal. Goals and dreams give hope and the
ability to achieve things otherwise not realized. If you can
institute the following keys into your daily routine, you can
realize more goals and reach new heights of success. What are
the keys and how do they work?
1. Identify the Goal
In order to achieve, you must set and accomplish goals. Goals
give purpose and make us feel good about ourselves.
Think about the horse pulling a cart with the carrot dangling
out in front. What purpose does the carrot serve? It’s the dream
and the desire. When the horse wakes up each morning, I doubt
that he is very excited about pulling a cart all around town.
But add the carrot and we have created purpose and motivation.
All day long the carrot hangs out in front and all day long the
horse chases it. People laugh at the horse because of its
simplicity. But during the first five minutes of the day the
horse has identified the goal to get the carrot. At the end of
the day, the horse is rewarded for its perseverance. While we
all might laugh at this little analogy, what would happen if we
inserted this horse mentality into our daily lives?
I agree that it isn’t that simple; however, do not make it
harder than it has to be. There is a simple system to creating
and accomplishing goals. You cannot just wish your goals; you
need to install structure in your life for establishing goals
and achieving your desired success.
First, goal statements need to be specific. Simply setting a
goal to lose weight isn’t enough; being specific will allow you
to better define the goal and create a stronger plan for
success. “I would like to lose 10 pounds by June 1st” is a much
stronger goal. This gives the goal more credibility and creates
the need for a specific plan.
Next, your goals need to be achievable. Achievable does not mean
easy. Goals should require you to move outside your comfort
zone. Goals are meant to help us accomplish things, but do not
make them impossible. Sometimes the accomplishments might be
small and other times they might be great. But, each one should
require you to elevate yourself in order to see through to the
accomplishment. This stretching will make you stronger and build
your confidence to achieve greater goals. When I think of this
process, I visualize athletes pushing themselves and their
bodies beyond where they have ever been. Why? In order to build
larger and stronger muscles, the weight must be gradually
increased. This weight increase in turn develops the muscles and
new, higher levels of strength. Without the increase of weight,
the muscles will not get stronger. I believe the same principle
holds true in the setting and accomplishment of goals. Goals
need to require more effort than the last, thus making you
stronger.
Third, establish a deadline or date for accomplishment of your
goal. The date can be just around the corner or somewhere in the
distant future; setting any date is the important part. A date
will allow you to keep your eyes looking forward and not looking
back. The goal lies in the future; now let’s get after it!
Finally, make a list of your goals. Create a “Goal Contract”
with yourself. Write down your goals, include all of the
specifics and sign it. This further solidifies your commitment
to the goal(s). Now, find a moment each day to review your
goals. Make them part of your daily routine.
2. Create a Battle Plan for Success
I like to use the words “battle plan”, because accomplishing
goals is not easy. Around every turn there will be obstacles.
You will quickly recognize some obstacles and others will appear
without warning, like an ambush. You may have control over the
outcome or you may be reliant upon another for help. Either way,
it is going to be a constant challenge for you to keep moving
forward, even through the setbacks. The key to overcoming
setbacks is to learn from what has happened and then alter or
strengthen your battle plan. Mel Gibson said regarding his
making of the Academy Award winning epic, Braveheart, "You have
to go in with a plan. You can deviate from it, though -- it's
just a jumping off point."
As you are formulating your plan, ask yourself these questions:
“What tools do I need to accomplish my goal(s)? What resources
do I have at my disposal? How long do I have to accomplish my
goal? Whose help might I need to realize success in my goal?”
Answering these questions will help you think through what is
needed to ensure success.
Another critical factor in your plan is other people. George
Washington said it this way, “Be courteous to all, but intimate
with few; and let those few be well tried before you give them
your confidence.” If you need support from others, be certain
that they support and are in alliance with your goals. Surround
yourself with strong supporters and let them become your battle
warriors. Rely upon them to help and encourage you. It is
unimaginable that you could achieve any goal without a few
obstacles. Because of this possibility, you need to surround
yourself with positive thinkers. The introduction of negative
ideas or feelings into a situation can sabotage your plan. Cheer
yourself on every day and surround yourself with others who do
the same. Be your biggest fan. Support and motivate yourself
with a positive attitude, even when you stumble. In John
Maxwell’s book, “Think on These Things”, he offered a quote that
resonates this type of positive thinking: “I am never down. I am
either up or getting up!” What a positive image.
3. Charge into Action
Welcome to the battlefield! You’ve assessed your goals and
created the battle plan. Now it is time to charge and get going.
Often, goals are set with the best of intentions only to fail
because they never get started. Inaction is an enemy of success.
It will even seek to destroy the work that has already occurred.
In the words of Oliver Wendell Holmes, “Finding the great things
in this world are not where we are standing, but is in what
direction we are moving: to reach the port of heaven, we must
sail sometimes with the wind and sometimes against it, but we
must sail, and not drift, nor lie at anchor.”
First, in either your personal or professional life, be
courageous. Do not limit yourself or settle for being average.
You were not created for ordinary, but for extraordinary.
Believe in yourself and your ability to succeed. In order to be
above average, you must think and act above average. If you
dream and accept mediocrity, you will always fall short of your
true potential. Dream great things and move into action to
accomplish them.
There are moments when you are offered opportunities to
accomplish great things only to accomplish little because you
fail to act upon the opportunity. Create your own success, seek
greatness. Abraham Lincoln once said, “Beware of rashness, but
with energy and sleepless vigilance, go forward and give us
victory.”
Next, be committed. Earlier you took the time to write down your
goals and dreams. This was an exercise of commitment. Once you
move into action, this exercise will need to expand. Keep your
goals nearby, so as to never lose focus. Each day recite your
dreams aloud. Move into action each day toward your dreams.
Strive to keep your goals in the forefront of your mind.
Finally, you must also be critical. As you encounter
opportunities, ask yourself how this will affect your goals.
Will this lead you to success or move you farther from your
goals? If they point towards success, accept their challenge. If
they don’t, let them pass. Even meeting new people is an action
exercise. Ask yourself, “Will this person support, encourage or
push me to new heights or will they pull me away or hinder me
from achieving my goals?” Charging into action is probably the
most difficult step in this process. Be courageous, stay
committed and be critical. When you have mastered these skills,
hold on tight and prepare yourself for a wonderful ride!
4. Celebrate Victories both Large & Small
Celebration is the final key. Rewarding yourself gives you an
opportunity to reflect upon your achievements and to celebrate
the hard work required by the journey. Celebration is an
important part in the goal process. It allows you to enjoy the
fruits of your efforts and to express joy and fellowship with
those who helped in your accomplishments. It provides a forum to
share with others the self-satisfaction you have received from
your success.
A common misconception is that celebration comes at the end of
the journey. Says who? I challenge you to celebrate early and
often. Recognize that some of your goals can be accomplished in
a short time, while others might take years to accomplish. With
long-term goals, the end is distant and thus you might become
discouraged or bored with the goal. It’s very easy to get
caught-up in the end-result and forget all of the small things
you accomplished that were essential to the mission. Take time
each day to celebrate your accomplishments.
I have heard my clients say, “I have not or cannot accomplish
anything.” Nothing could be farther from the truth! The truth is
that these persons have not seen the end goal, but have
accomplished many things that have led them toward their goal.
Certainly you need to stay focused on the ultimate goal, but
don’t forget to celebrate the critical accomplishments along the
way.
Try this great exercise: Create a celebration team and a weekly
celebration list. This will help you more clearly recognize your
progress and the reasons to celebrate. I am confident that you
can find at least one thing each week to celebrate. Once you
view the list, set aside some time to celebrate. You can
celebrate alone or with friends. Develop an environment that
allows for self and group celebration. Ask others if they would
be on your celebration team, to support you and celebrate with
you. Have fun with it!
In the end, it’s the accomplishment of goals and the achievement
of dreams that will bring great joy to your life. Stay committed
and focused, develop a plan, move into action and celebrate your
success. With this powerful structure in place, you will amaze
yourself and those around you with all that you accomplish. You
can do it!
Copyright Anthony Mullins
Elite Coaching Alliance 2005
About Author :
Anthony Mullins is the President and Life Coach for The Elite
Coaching Alliance. He specializes in leadership, marriage,
relationship and family,christian based coaching. He is the
author of the upcoming e-book "Finding Fulfillment in and
Unfulfilling World". He can be reached by e-mail:
anthony@elitecoachingalliance.com or by phone at 770.587.3545.
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