So you have met your date everything seems to be going ok so you want to tell them but don't move to quickly here its time to step back.

Trying to hard to impress, or simply thinking that because someone is friendly they must be interested in is not necessarily so.

You need to wait for the right moment.

Waiting for the right moment

You may be itching to tell someone you fancy them but you need to take a more subtle approach.

This will stop you being knocked back and allow things to develop naturally unless they express a strong interest in you or give the right body language but more of that later.

Let's look at the first date.

The first date

It's gone well but what you need to do is simply arrange a second date don't get involved in saying how attractive you think they are simply say:

"You enjoyed their company and want to see them again"

That's it.

Women don't particularly like men that are too eager and give the impression of wanting their bodies before their minds, or are too intense or full on.

Take a step back.

You enjoyed their company and you want to see them again it's as simple as that.

Body language that shows your date fancies you.

There are however definite signs (even on a first date) that your date fancies you and all you need to do is look at body language.

Tell tale signs are someone who adopts a relaxed manner and leans forwards you and holds eye contact for long periods.

If someone is not sure or attracted they will normally retain distance and take up defensive postures such as arms folded.

Watch for this eye contact move it shows definite interest

Eye to eye contact is made.

Then the eyes go down to the mouth and follow the rest of the body down and back up to the eyes. It takes a while and you will notice it.

Women, who are relaxed or fancy you, will show you their wrists and will have a tendency to play with their hair or touch you on the arm when talking.

Watch the Knees & Legs

When sitting down watch for one knee bent to allow the foot to be tucked under the opposite thigh. The knee point will be aimed directly at you.

This is a very relaxed position and shows she is comfortable and wants your full attention. Many women will use a more obvious move.

This one should be termed the "Sharon Stone Pose" and was used in Basic Instinct and is a very memorable scene.

With one leg pressed against the other tightly she will then combine this with the placing of one hand on her thigh and move it drawing your gaze down.

This position of the hand on the thigh is a serious I am interested in you.

The Perfect set up!

Watch for the following:

A woman crosses her legs and moves her shoe towards you so you have to look at it.

She may go further and let her shoe on the top leg hang off her foot and starts playing with it.

This means she wants a response from you now!

Dont rush your date many will not show an interest on the first date so don't be to keen if they agree to a second date your on the right course.

When you see obvious body language encouraging you then you can show an interest.

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