22 Feb 2008 03:51:01 | Althea DeBrule
According to the National Gardening Association, suckers
are rapidly growing shoots rising from an underground root or
stem, often to the detriment of the tree. They can be very
irritating and annoying for they bear no flowers or fruit.
Rather than cut them off, one way to get rid of them is to
roughly yank the suckers off to remove the cells and tissues
that cause re-growth.
Even if you are not a gardener, you know a lot about weeds. They
are everywhere and tend to take over, crowd a plant’s root
system, and provide a chaotic and unsightly mess. While there
are many kinds of weed-killer sprays on the market, orchard
growers hesitate to use them for fear of damaging the trees.
Unfortunately, businesses have suckers and weeds too. These
unattractive thieves rob the organization blind by ruining its
competitive advantage, and choking and stifling its people. To
avoid these outcomes, try applying a heavy layer of protective
interpersonal mulch to effectively stop all but the most
persistent of suckers and weeds.
Here are four suckers and weeds that are typically found in the
business garden, along with ways to yank them out before they
root too deeply:
Office Politics
Far too many workers put their faith in office politics and
believe their careers will either soar or plunge as a result of
them. Office politics are a fundamental part of the daily grind.
Sometimes people who cannot succeed on their own merit play
them, and oftentimes, workers who pursue personal hidden agendas
at the expense of others practice them. How do you keep this
damaging sucker from taking root?
Learn and understand how the office political game
is played. You cannot afford to ignore office politics;
whether you choose to play the political game or abstain is up
to you.
Use ethical influence to impact others without being
sucked into the game. Strengthen professional relationships
with others in your company and industry.
Increase your awareness of how the company works—who
has informal power and clout, and the unwritten as well as
written rules of engagement.
Jumping to Conclusions
We often criticize others for jumping to conclusions or assuming
the worst about a situation that may be erroneous or is not
justified by the facts. When we jump to conclusions, we tend to
label others based on prejudice or stereotype, interpret their
behavior as a result of assumptions, and narrow our objectivity
by becoming overly critical or intolerant. To uproot this weed,
you have to continually dig deep into the soil of your mind and
heart and repeatedly yank it out:
Think of ways to jump to positive conclusions or
consider alternative aspects of any problem, issue or situation.
Refrain from speaking or acting before hearing all the
facts. Stop wasting precious time and energy on what you
think may have happened. There may be a perfectly good
explanation for why a particular action was taken. Ask for
it.
Avoid the tendency to pigeon-hole others or use
labels and stereotypes.
Wishy-Washiness
Do you have a boss or co-workers who just can’t seem to make of
their minds? One minute they model commitment and confidence,
promise to support and back you up; the next minute they
hesitate, become indecisive, and do not know the right direction
to take. You will need both hands to handle this slippery weed:
Focus on what’s important. Ask for advice and
insight. When you have considered all the available facts, move
forward with prudence and good sense.
Put some stakes in the ground. Take a stand and stop
straddling the fence.
Clearly outline any roles and expectations; then
follow the plan.
Double-Talk
In the business world, double-talk looks like excuse making and
blame shifting. It often involves the deliberate use of
ambiguous, vague or confusing language that is spoken or written
in an earnest, sincere or meaningful tone. Yet, when you reflect
on what you have just read or heard, you realize it is a mixture
of sense and nonsense, drivel, rubbish, and just bunk! When
someone uses double-talk, we are left with a bad taste in our
mouths. So, how do we get rid of this poisonous weed?
Don’t do it! Understand that to continue to
engage in double-talk will negatively impact your character,
integrity and reputation in the end.
When you hear double-talk, try to discover motives,
hidden agendas, intentions and reasons by listening with an
objective filter.
Hold yourself accountable for your mistakes and
failures instead of making excuses and blaming others.
Don’t let pervasive suckers and weeds choke your career and
business garden. Don’t just cut them out; yank them—root system
and all! You’ll be more successful if you do.
About Author :
Althea DeBrule, entrepreneur & seasoned human resources
executive, has helped people achieve their career goals for more
than 30 years. She is recognized for her bottom line and
practical application of career transition & development
strategies in a way that compels action. To discover how Althea
can help you take your career to a new level, visit http://www.extreme
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