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22 Feb 2008 06:03:21 | Virginia Bola, PsyD
The unemployment checks are running out and there is no
potential job in sight. The wolf is knocking at the door and you
need to survive. Here are five tips to keep you afloat.
1. Ignore your ego and get everyone on board. You hate letting
your children see you as less than competent and completely in
charge but now is the time to share your predicament and let
them help. By talking with your family, you allow even small
children to better appreciate the realities of the world and
feel like an important part of a big project. You may be
surprised by how they will rally around the idea and come up
with ways to save money which makes them feel as if they are
really contributing and have value in the family hierarchy. Make
saving money and “making do” with less into a game, like
Survivor and other reality shows they watch.
2. Adaptive life style strategies. Stop buying brand names of
everything from food to household items to clothes. Change to
generics and make using coupons and comparison shopping into a
game where you can learn to excel. Leave the expensive prepared
foods on the supermarket shelves and start cooking from scratch
– the savings can be substantial and you have plenty of time for
preparation. Only buy something that you absolutely need right
now, luxuries and treats will be available after you find work.
3. Temping. Temporary work through an agency can provide a
paycheck, even if considerably smaller than your prior income.
If the work is in your field, it may lead to a permanent
position but is worthwhile even if the work is low skilled and
routine. It keeps you in the business loop and can be positive
when you apply for permanent positions: “I took a temporary job
because I’m just not happy unless I’m working and productive” is
music to the ears of potential employers.
4. Self-employment. Working for yourself sounds tempting with
the thought of no future lay-offs and potentially high income.
Unfortunately, the worst time to start a business is when your
resources are limited. Starting a business takes money, more
money than you can imagine, to say nothing of the time and
effort you will invest, possibly with little monetary reward.
5. Entry level jobs. You have paid your dues through the years,
gaining skills, experience, and personal competence. All led to
increased income and a higher level of responsibility. To step
backward into work you could have performed as a teenager makes
you think of yourself as a failure, that you are no longer worth
anything. Try changing your perspective. Entry level work, such
as fast food positions, pays minimum wage and often results in
minimal worker effort and service. Since you are only doing the
job temporarily, you have the chance to shine above your
coworkers by displaying enthusiasm, caring, efficiency, and
excellent customer service -- something always noticed by the
public. In a best case scenario, you may impress a business
customer who is looking for a great employee and receive a job
offer. At worst, you are bringing in some money to the family
coffers and if you are clever enough to select an evening shift,
you days are still free to devote to job search for that
position you really want.
About Author :
Virginia Bola operated a rehabilitation company for 20 years,
developing innovative job search techniques for disabled
workers, while serving as a respected Vocational Expert in
Administrative, Civil and Workers' Compensation Courts. Author
of an interactive and emotionally supportive workbook, The Wolf
at the Door: An Unemployment Survival Manual, and a monthly
ezine, The Worker's Edge, she can be reached at
http://www.unemploymentblues.com
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