22 Feb 2008 12:28:38 | Robert Imbriale
Recently, I had the pleasure of spending the afternoon with Les
Brown, one of the world's most prominent motivational speakers.
I had flown out to Phoenix, Arizona to see Les and several other
speakers share their knowledge in a one-day seminar put on by
Summit Seminars (http://www.summitseminar.com).
Les Brown had this powerful little thing to say. "Go BEFORE You
Are Ready."
When I heard that message, it caused me to stop and think about
my own life. I remembered earlier this year having the
opportunity to take over the second floor of the office building
we lease for my company. At the time, I really had no need for
this extra space. I declined the offer even though I knew how
quickly my company was growing.
Well, 6 months later I am now looking for more office space!
Just as I had felt, my company has grown and I have completely
outgrown our current location! It's too late to take over the
second floor. It's been rented to somebody else and they will be
there for the next 5 years!
Often in my coaching sessions, I am asked about how to know when
you are really ready to take the next step. In other words, is
there really a "right" time to make your move, to take on a new
challenge, to grow your business, to launch your new web site,
or to propose marriage to your significant other?
Are there signs, or do you just get a "gut" feeling around about
the time you need to take the next step. For many of us, we get
those gut feelings, and often times, we'll simply rationalize
them away. We'll tell ourselves how many other things have to be
lined up first before we can take that next step in our lives.
For some people, they may never take that next step! Instead,
they tell themselves again and again how "someday" they will
have what they want; yet they do all they can to avoid moving
even one step forward. Are you starting to see why so many
talented people never become the successes they could be?
I believe that what Les Brown was saying is that if you have it
in your mind that you are going to take the next step, don't
wait for all things to be perfectly lined up, get out there and
take that next step now!
When you stop to consider it, you and I are never really ready
for the next step. We can always find reasons to put off taking
the next step, or making the next move. We are experts at
procrastination!
The reality is that opportunity will only pass you by once. I
procrastinated. I wasn't totally "ready" to take on the second
floor of my building. Now, that opportunity has come and gone
and it will cost me much more to move my entire organization to
a new location in order to keep up with our rapid expansion.
It's sometimes a little daunting to make a move without really
knowing what to expect on the other side, but listen to this.
All growth happens in the unknown!
It's not our place to know what's next. It is our place to stand
up and be ready for that next step, wherever it may lead us.
And, from what I have experienced in my life, it's exciting to
see what happens!
It's interesting to note is that when you do make your move,
things happen! For instance, had I moved into the second floor
office, I would have seen an even faster increase in the size of
my business. It's simply a matter of being brave, getting out of
our comfort zones, and taking action on the things we already
know will move us to where we want to be.
So, instead of fearing the unknown, be curious about it.
Approach it with positive expectation and be ready to be
surprised, thrilled, excited, and moved!
After all, life is an adventure and adventures are most fun when
we show up excited, right? This is your life... and what you do
with it is entirely up to you. Choose well.
About Author :
Robert Imbriale is an internationally known Internet Marketing
Expert who has written several books including, "Internet
Marketing Secrets" which you can get FREE by going to
http://www.ultimatewealth.com. Robert is personally responsible
for more than $100 million in Internet sales and holds seminars
nationwide where he teaches entrepreneurs how to make money on
the Internet.